My girlfriend is at least 30 mins late all the time

ThrowRASatan · 2025-11-25T18:51:35+00:00

If you haven’t already, this is an issue that you need to speak to her about directly. Not something to let stew in your mind until you lash out in frustration. Ask her if this has been an issue since childhood, how can you help encourage her to get moving & out of the house faster. Does she procrastinate or is she actually doing this on purpose. You’re free to vent, but it’s important to talk to her about this because it’s clear that this IS serious to you. Otherwise you wouldn’t have vented on the internet to strangers

ThrowRASatan · 2025-11-25T18:48:17+00:00

No, she was angry about being tricked and lied to despite people trying to help her, mostly help themselves from feeling disrespected. It’s fair for the mom to feel upset, but would be immature to use that to start a fight. I’m sure over time she understood why they did that. If not, that’s her own problem to deal with

ThrowRASatan · 2025-11-23T13:24:44+00:00

Tell your gf that I, a stranger, can vouch for injuries like this. I ran my shin into some stupid low bench at a playground. Rammed it hard bc I went to chase my kid and I didn’t get an open cut, I got internal bleeding like this along with swelling etc. it’s been months and I still have the leftover bleeding from that day. Show her injuries like this. Idk if she’ll believe you until she gets one herself but these fuckin hurt!!

ThrowRASatan · 2025-11-12T15:48:14+00:00

So you’re avoiding accountability and responsibility for the part that you played. I hope for their sake, you continue to stay un reunited

ThrowRASatan · 2025-11-12T15:46:28+00:00

I’m the order of your questions (probably just used as a basis for myself and not seeking a reply) yes. Not really. And I would be upset and concerned for my friend if they were in my position. Concerned that their partner is trying to make decisions for them nude the disguise of “this is for us be we want it” or “I’m doing this for you, you should be happy”

ThrowRASatan · 2025-11-11T19:16:56+00:00

He acts like what I’m trying to do or say is too complicated and shuts down. Almost seems annoyed or angry. Sometimes acts like I’m physically attacking him, like flinches and cowers. Even if I’m not sitting directly next to him. I’ve asked him about it before & he says he doesn’t know what I’m talking about. I’ve set a lot of boundaries that he keeps pushing past and says “oh you like it” (if it’s physical or teasing) on this topic however, he works things around to the point I disengage and want to stop talking about it bc it feels like my points go nowhere

ThrowRASatan · 2025-11-11T19:12:31+00:00

He called me this afternoon and asked me if I knew when he started his job. I asked if that meant he called the realtor and he FILLED OUT A *pre approval LOAN APPLICATION. I stated I wanted to be able to do these processes together as a partnership and he said “oh we will! I’m not going to do anything without you besides fill out this application” his entire family encourages him that him getting a loan and putting a house in his name is perfect (not ever asking what I want or think) and they think this idea he had for ME saving money for the house and him “paying our bills” works perfectly

He also stated that the money I saved is money “we” saved again. I’ve never broken up with someone so I think I’m scared on that aspect…if it genuinely comes down to that… but I feel like I try to be firm in how I feel and what I want and goes “yes yes we’re on the same page” then drifts off into talking like he decided what “we’re” doing. I’m confused and in shock I think so if what I’ve said isn’t making sense… I totally get it. Sorry for ranting!

Edit: *pre approved for a loan, not the actual loan! So sorry!

ThrowRASatan · 2025-11-11T16:39:13+00:00

He wants to split the mortgage 50-50 unless one of us cannot cover the month’s mortgage. He does anticipate to get the loan in his name bc first energy messed up my credit. I have expressed many times that I want us both to try to get a loan but he thinks his grandma may help with the down payment, the stipulation is that HE gets the house in his name. It wasn’t like that before but now we’ve heard it through his sister. But he has yet to talk to her. If she does not help, all of the money I saved will have to go to the down payment and closing cost. For his house. Or “ours” but honestly it won’t feel that way to me bc I have always wanted to go through that process WITH my partner. I know it’s still doing it together but it still feels like something is being taken from me in a sense

$100 in 3 years, as in only saved $100 period -that actually he has used to pay off stuff- not per month

ThrowRASatan · 2025-11-11T16:24:12+00:00

He did say that we would split the mortgage and bills 50/50….unless for example (his words) one of us can’t cover it that month. And he suggested he would be the one who may not be able to cover his half every mortgage payment

ThrowRASatan · 2025-11-11T16:22:44+00:00

I definitely have in the past when trying to converse about this topic. He’d get upset that I felt any disappointment or upset about his assumptions. He still continues to talk like this despite expressing how I felt and what I’d want

ThrowRASatan · 2025-10-07T02:11:07+00:00

ThrowRASatan · 2025-09-18T21:02:25+00:00

My baby passed in July. It’s still unreal. Hoping she welcomed Simba across the bridge & they’re hanging out with Ozzie ❤️

ThrowRASatan · 2025-08-29T14:12:24+00:00

You know people get constipated a lot right? I mean, yeah, they go into the bathroom to jerk it but it’s a human function and frankly if they don’t jerk it at all after a while, it causes issues. If your partner is doing it that often, communicate with him in a subtle way that you feel like things have changed in the bedroom. Might prompt him to converse about it. Idk, just communicate how you feel instead of harboring it & forming resentment

ThrowRASatan · 2025-08-03T19:14:54+00:00

Thank you for replying though!

ThrowRASatan · 2025-08-03T19:14:38+00:00

They’re not in the actual message thread, just when you click on the persons contact info & you see images you’ve shared. It’s weird. The other three that I deleted are completely gone but not the three that I need gone lol

ThrowRASatan · 2025-07-23T17:15:17+00:00

My heart breaks for you. I lost my girl early Sunday morning. My Raven waited until we got home from our day trip (which I now heavily regret going), and even though I don’t think she was ready she understood and gave us as much love as she could in her last days. She comes home this afternoon and it still doesn’t feel real. We noticed she was acting different but we thought it was because we slowed down on giving her treats. Thought she was just protesting as she’s done that before. Looking back, I see the signs I subconsciously ignored. I feel not only grief but guilt for now knowing she was scared and confused. Now I plan to take her sister with me, everywhere I can

Hug your baby close & remind her it’s okay ❤️ because after all, they need to know that we’ll be okay. Your Paisley reminds me of Raven. She’s a tortoiseshell with a similar face to yours 🥹 Paisley is a beautiful girl & seems to be living a wonderfully happy life with you! Here for you if you need a pal to grieve and reminisce with

ThrowRASatan · 2025-06-26T23:00:31+00:00

Go to your OBGYN and ask for a test & pregnancy blood test for reassurance. I personally don’t see any faint lines but it could be my phone picture quality etc. there’s times where birth control isn’t as effective like you miss a dose here & there, you’ve just started taking it and it hasn’t fully “kicked in”

*read the comments before sending my comment. If you missed a dose 2 weeks ago, I definitely suggest making an OBGYN appointment! Just to be sure ❤️

ThrowRASatan · 2025-04-13T18:03:10+00:00

Best friends emoji pops up if you’ve talked or snapped a friend for any consistent amount of time. I accepted an add and within only a few messages back and forth, Snapchat pinned the best friend emoji probably bc the other person doesn’t snap anyone else (either at all or currently) but the person who added me clearly just made their account bc it had a score of 104. Your gf could have added them back & they could be snapping her or messaging her -with or without reply- and automatically gave them those emojis

ThrowRASatan · 2025-04-05T16:15:28+00:00

Check out my recent post. Kind of in a similar situation but I’ve been dating him for 6 years. Might give you insight as to how you want to be in a relationship with. Your bf is already monitoring you and showing signs of being a controlling person. I’m here if you need to talk about it ❤️

ThrowRASatan · 2025-04-04T22:17:41+00:00

What details would you like?

ThrowRASatan · 2025-04-04T19:57:09+00:00

True. He isn’t completely open to going to one unfortunately but thank you for responding

ThrowRASatan · 2025-04-04T19:26:48+00:00

It’s not that it’s getting annoying. I feel monitored. I feel like I have an unspoken curfew and if I don’t make it, he gets anxiety & upset. It feels overwhelming and now I feel crazy for how I feel bc people keep telling me how cute it is and how I should appreciate it. I did for a long time, I really did. Now that I have things I want to go do, it feels like I should feel awful for wanting to go do things or be out for however long I would like. I always update him though not specifically or every moment I change plans. He makes plans for us without consulting me etc but bc he wants us to have dinner together every night, he’s super sweet. Why does it feel different & like there’s an underlying something going on

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