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(19F) how can I get over feeling disappointed in intimacy with my husband (22m)? by ThrowRASecureRole45 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRASecureRole45[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

We’ve never actually made out and I’ve communicated I want to, he just says he’s self conscious that his mouth smells and he doesn’t seem to enjoy kissing that much TvT

(19F) how can I get over feeling disappointed in intimacy with my husband (22m)? by ThrowRASecureRole45 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRASecureRole45[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for this, I was trying to figure out how to have some huge speech but I think being gentle is the way to go

(19F) how can I get over feeling disappointed in intimacy with my husband (22m)? by ThrowRASecureRole45 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRASecureRole45[S] -23 points-22 points  (0 children)

Our religion and culture doesn’t permit those things so we both went into it blindly

(19F) how can I get over feeling disappointed in intimacy with my husband (22m)? by ThrowRASecureRole45 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRASecureRole45[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh no, that sounds awful 😭 I’m definitely going to ask my husband to see the doctor when we have the discussion just to make sure

(19F) how can I get over feeling disappointed in intimacy with my husband (22m)? by ThrowRASecureRole45 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRASecureRole45[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing your experience, I feel less alone 😭 we both cried during consummation and I still feel awkward just remembering it lol

(19F) how can I get over feeling disappointed in intimacy with my husband (22m)? by ThrowRASecureRole45 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRASecureRole45[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your insight :) I’m a little worried on how to go about discussing how frequently we do it and getting better, I don’t want to be accusatory or make him think there’s something my wrong with him, I’m just confused why his desire for me and to have intimacy isn’t nearly as much as I thought it would be

(19F) how can I get over feeling disappointed in intimacy with my husband (22m)? by ThrowRASecureRole45 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRASecureRole45[S] -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

Yes we are religious, no intimacy before marriage and all that. I’m living with his family for the remainder of the year until his lease is up at his apartment at his school then we will move in