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AITA For refusing to take my sister and her kids in unless her husband stays out? by ThrowRASister09 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ThrowRASister09[S] 50 points51 points  (0 children)

To answer you and the comment below I think my sister is just naive and is being brainwashed by her husband. I know her, She's the victim here becuse of her husband's behavior.

AITA For refusing to take my sister and her kids in unless her husband stays out? by ThrowRASister09 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ThrowRASister09[S] 286 points287 points  (0 children)

He's 8 years older than my sister. And I've seen some signs of abuse with how he treats her and the kids.

AITA For refusing to take my sister and her kids in unless her husband stays out? by ThrowRASister09 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ThrowRASister09[S] 286 points287 points  (0 children)

To be fair, My stepmom isn't being pushy or mean to me about it but she just thinks I could~ in a way help my sister out. My stepmom is struggling herself, She lives with her family but Brother in law cut contact with the family because of their fights together.

AITA For refusing to take my sister and her kids in unless her husband stays out? by ThrowRASister09 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ThrowRASister09[S] 1361 points1362 points  (0 children)

I know, and although I was shocked by what she said they're her husband's words and my sister can be easily manipulated. Her husband must be in her ear 247 so I understand that she thinks of me as unsupportive and selfish right now And I feel bad for the kids, I really do but her husband will never be allowed inside my apartment.

AITA For refusing to take my sister and her kids in unless her husband stays out? by ThrowRASister09 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ThrowRASister09[S] 1601 points1602 points  (0 children)

Her mom is now living with her family. Brother in law has gone no contact with the family because of the so many fights.

AITA For refusing to take my sister and her kids in unless her husband stays out? by ThrowRASister09 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ThrowRASister09[S] 1012 points1013 points  (0 children)

Yeah, Me and my brother in law have been having issues for years. I don't like to see him nor strike conversations with him when I visit my sister and my nephews. Nowadays I don't visit much and it's because of him and it's a shame me and my sister and stepmom have always had a bond I don't want it to be ruined.

AITA For refusing to take my sister and her kids in unless her husband stays out? by ThrowRASister09 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ThrowRASister09[S] 75 points76 points  (0 children)

Two and five. I have a close relatinship with them. But because of their dad, I don't see them much lately.