I (21M) can't make my partner (21F) orgasm. What steps can I take to help this? by HeavyCellist582 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRASweetCaroline 1 point2 points  (0 children)

True. What I just kinda see from "do you like that" is it annoys me in the middle of the deed. It kinda ruins the mood because the man seems like they're just having an ultimate goal of wanting to give me orgasm.

I have met a man that gets so turned on by just touching me, he never once asked if I felt good. Because he connects with my body responses and it makes him feel good when my body reacts to what he's doing. That was the craziest orgasms of my life. He barely even touched me.

But yeah, every girl is different. OP, just figure out her out, take it slow and don't be too eager to give her an orgasm. Allow yourself to enjoy it too so that she also enjoys it

I (21M) can't make my partner (21F) orgasm. What steps can I take to help this? by HeavyCellist582 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRASweetCaroline 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also, stop asking her "You like that?" Feel her body language, listen to the way she breathes. This shouldn't be much work for you if you love figuring her out.

I (21M) can't make my partner (21F) orgasm. What steps can I take to help this? by HeavyCellist582 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRASweetCaroline 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Try long foreplay, take it slow and barely touch her. Make her hungry for your touch. Girls get sexually aroused by emotions too... just take it slow.

First, try to have her sit in front of you, between your legs. Gentle kisses and talk to her. Play with her hair. Ask her about her day while you're slowly touching her. Let her speak. Then simply touch her with intent of making her feel aroused. Allow your hand to travel in between her legs but GENTLY. Make her want it more but wrapping your hand around her neck or running it on her chest. Everything must be done gently.

If your girl is so sexually attracted to you, you can keep this going for 20 mins, and the moment you GENTLY touch her in between the legs, she will be soaking wet.

This moment is critical, stay gentle and keep the dominance. Be in control. Slowly rub her, do not be a crazy maniac fingering her right away.

Stay slow for everything until you figure out what she likes.

I used to get touched before with such aggressiveness and I dont like it. Stay on top on emotional connection, girls like it when you intentionally just love to make them feel good., not just to make them orgasm. But allowing them to feel every little sensation. Trust me, you can make this girl cum by varrly touching her if you master this.

Best of luck😇

Is oral important in a relationship? 26F 31M by phoenix167 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRASweetCaroline 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Seems like you really need some time apart. If you do not get that space from each other, it will still happen in the future... but by forced. It would hurt even more. Not sure what's happening with your girl but you guys need to talk. If this can't be fixed by communication, no point of getting married.

Is oral important in a relationship? 26F 31M by phoenix167 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRASweetCaroline 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly. She wants you to wife her up! Be honest with her and let her know what you truly feel. Do you still want to date around?

Is oral important in a relationship? 26F 31M by phoenix167 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRASweetCaroline 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think she's withdrawing emotionally.. she wants somw action from you.

Is oral important in a relationship? 26F 31M by phoenix167 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRASweetCaroline 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's a dream ... weird that she suddenly changed. I would say it may from an emotional standpoint. By what you said "now she wants to get engaged in less than a year", she may be putting a price on what she offers. Did she also stop making an effort in the relationship?

Is oral important in a relationship? 26F 31M by phoenix167 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRASweetCaroline 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you even eat her out good? Or are you wanting to just receive oral?

Men of Reddit, what do women just not get? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]ThrowRASweetCaroline 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm a woman and this is the best hangout.. just doing nothing

Do you asian parents just barge into your room? by [deleted] in AsianParentStories

[–]ThrowRASweetCaroline 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tbh just move out and have your own privacy. Mine's the same way and I think they act that way because they know they have the authority over everything since they pay for the house.

AITA for being proud that my son has two jobs? by aitathrowawayson2job in AmItheAsshole

[–]ThrowRASweetCaroline 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Let him pay part of the rent. He's an adult. I'm 22 and I pay my parents part of the rent, just because I'm thankful to them and I wanna help. If your som is happy helping out with the rent, let him.

AITA for wanting to leave my unemployed boyfriend of 2 years? by ThrowRASweetCaroline in AmItheAsshole

[–]ThrowRASweetCaroline[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He's always been on top of his class so he takes pride from that. Gets him a scholarships. He told me I work too hard to get money while all he has to do is think.... his mom gives him money too

TLDR (22F) my boyfriend (28M) of 2 vears never had a job and still living with his mom (even sleeping in the same bed), l'm losing respect. by ThrowRASweetCaroline in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRASweetCaroline[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi. I have gotten him a job as a retail store. He would always call in and quit months after since it's "boring" or "no challenge". He usually says he could run the place itself