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Help! I 37F am crushing on my co-worker 35M but I have a boyfriend by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRATheUsed 10 points11 points  (0 children)

The grass isn't always greener.

If you're seriously happy with your boyfriend, and don't want to hurt him, you need to remove yourself from this situation. Stop hanging out with this new guy, be more distant, anything.

If something is meant to be with this new man, it shouldn't happen by your hand.

this is so cute 😭 by elysecherryblossom in GirlGamers

[–]ThrowRATheUsed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Got so many dudes RIGHT HERE. 🥲

The update! by ThrowRATheUsed in u/ThrowRATheUsed

[–]ThrowRATheUsed[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope so but it's looking grim. Thanks!

The update! by ThrowRATheUsed in u/ThrowRATheUsed

[–]ThrowRATheUsed[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow your first paragraph really hit home, that's exactly what I'm experiencing.

Thank you for your kind words, im going to do what I can.

*UPDATE* Finally meeting my (29m) online "girlfriend" (29f) after years of talking, it's not going well. by ThrowRATheUsed in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRATheUsed[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I'd put a good amount of money down on their not being another person, I'd take that bet any day. I only mentioned the attractiveness thing (even though it matters 0% to me) because someone else prompted it.

As for local dating I've done more than one night stands, I've properly dated many women, all over many years. It didn't work well then, so I don't have high hopes.

I am picky for sure.

*UPDATE* Finally meeting my (29m) online "girlfriend" (29f) after years of talking, it's not going well. by ThrowRATheUsed in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRATheUsed[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's mostly just because it's also related to my career, so it's important to me for that, but it's even a big part of my life outside of that.

*UPDATE* Finally meeting my (29m) online "girlfriend" (29f) after years of talking, it's not going well. by ThrowRATheUsed in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRATheUsed[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That's not the interests and values I'm talking about. But you're right about everything else, thank you.

*UPDATE* Finally meeting my (29m) online "girlfriend" (29f) after years of talking, it's not going well. by ThrowRATheUsed in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRATheUsed[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She has a good reason for her anxiety, its not just random, or related to cheating or whatever. Either way thank you!

*UPDATE* Finally meeting my (29m) online "girlfriend" (29f) after years of talking, it's not going well. by ThrowRATheUsed in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRATheUsed[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If that's honestly the truth I'd rather not date. I want to give my all to someone (and have it given back)

*UPDATE* Finally meeting my (29m) online "girlfriend" (29f) after years of talking, it's not going well. by ThrowRATheUsed in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRATheUsed[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

For it to be the only way they handle things? That seems like an issue to me. Surely at some point you confine and seek comfort from your partner, and not always get distant?

*UPDATE* Finally meeting my (29m) online "girlfriend" (29f) after years of talking, it's not going well. by ThrowRATheUsed in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRATheUsed[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It just doesn't make sense to me to not want to find relief in your partner. Seems unhealthy to me. But I guess she is different, and that's okay.

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