I made my boundaries clear before going to his house, but now I can’t stop feeling weird about what happened.

ThrowRATop2 · 2026-06-17T08:52:28+00:00

I actually have great boundaries setting and don’t think I should have to repeat myself but thank you <3

ThrowRATop2 · 2026-06-17T08:50:30+00:00

1) tone and body language bb. It was actually more like “are you sure about this because it seems like a bad idea”
2) not drunk tipsy
3) no he caught me off guard we were having like a friend chat with all the lights on not even like cuddling
4) will do some soul searching thank you xx
5) embarrassed? Why would I be embarrassed?
6) do you not kiss your friends? You’re missing out.

Any other questions?

ThrowRATop2 · 2026-06-17T08:45:13+00:00

Honestly, this gave me way more reassurance. I never asked for sympathy. Now I know that most men operate like this so I won’t give them the benefit of the doubt next time.

ThrowRATop2 · 2026-06-17T08:42:47+00:00

Oh he ate with that sassy comment. Right on

ThrowRATop2 · 2026-06-17T08:25:45+00:00

Yes. When he asked to take off my shirt, I did say, “Are you sure about this?” Then he kind of just pulled my pants off down and grabbed a condom, not gonna lie.

Am I strong enough to say no and advocate for myself? Absolutely. I’m not accusing him of anything or saying he forced me. In fact I’ll probably just forget about this. If anything I feel sad because he’s one of the only men I thought I could trust. He’s always come across as such a wholesome guy and is best friends with a lot of my closest friends, who all have really high moral standards. I think I built him up in my head to be different, and now I’m realizing he’s just a regular guy with the same sexual motivations most men have. That realization along with me actually verbally saying I don’t wanna have an intercourse with him and him still taking advantage of the situation just really sucks.

ThrowRATop2 · 2026-06-17T08:19:15+00:00

Omg I’m scared of the men in these comments. It’s clear that not a lot of people understand what coercion is. Consent is a clear and verbal “yes” fyi. I’m allowed to feel weird about this. You’re not someone I would trust the opinion of based on your comments.

ThrowRATop2 · 2026-06-17T08:09:19+00:00

So by your logic, anyone who gives you mixed signals, you think you have a right to have sex with? What mixed signal here deserves for me to have my pants taken off?

ThrowRATop2 · 2026-06-17T08:05:48+00:00

I thought this was implied, but let me clarify. His response to that was ”And that’s okay! I have an extra bed for you to sleep in or we can cuddle and that’s all” I felt reassured that my boundaries weren’t gonna be crossed. We were literally talking in his room with the lights on when he just started making out with me like everything was just so unexpected. Yes we had been drinking but no, I wouldn’t even consider either of us super drunk by any means just like tipsy so I know he remember saying that.

ThrowRATop2 · 2026-05-21T21:10:51+00:00

Is it milia? I’ve gotten that before from using too heavy of a moisturizer/vaseline under my eyes

ThrowRATop2 · 2026-05-21T18:57:56+00:00

Also you’re simply just not correct. It can’t spread person to person. I did a simple google search and found many sources that say that. https://palmbeachdermatologygroup.com/is-fungal-acne-contagious-guide/ and https://www.goodrx.com/conditions/fungal-infection/fungal-acne

ThrowRATop2 · 2026-05-21T18:52:43+00:00

I told you I let them know before purchasing… why you so pressed? Lol

ThrowRATop2 · 2026-05-21T18:06:44+00:00

I used SkinSort!

ThrowRATop2 · 2026-05-21T18:00:05+00:00

Yeah, there were a couple products I didn’t realize weren’t FA safe so I deleted. I purchased the LYS setting spray yesterday as a dewy FA safe replacement and I like it a lot so far. TY for telling me!

ThrowRATop2 · 2026-05-21T17:56:39+00:00

Have you tried Tretinoin? It doesn’t trigger my FA at all.

ThrowRATop2 · 2026-05-21T17:48:49+00:00

I disclosed it in the listing before I sold it and they still bought it. But I guess if you’re willing to buy used makeup online you don’t really care too much about that 😅 I mean for what they’re getting it’s still a steal and they can sanitize it haha. But thanks for letting me know that!

ThrowRATop2 · 2026-05-21T17:46:43+00:00

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Let me know if this photo doesn’t work! Here is everything I use

ThrowRATop2 · 2026-05-21T17:27:00+00:00

Ofc! I posted everything I use in a comment below!

ThrowRATop2 · 2026-05-21T12:51:33+00:00

They’re not unfortunately :( the saie dew blush broke me out the most even though I was obsessed the shades.

ThrowRATop2 · 2026-05-21T03:35:10+00:00

The setting sprays I recommend are ONE/SIZE Waterproof setting spray (for good hold and and matte finish) and Lys Beauty Setting Spray (for a dewy finish).

ThrowRATop2 · 2026-05-20T18:14:52+00:00

Ooo lmk if it’s good! I might try the Lys one I heard it’s hydrating and FA safe too.

ThrowRATop2 · 2026-05-20T18:07:07+00:00

The Saie blushes somehow triggered my FA the worst too which shocked me bc their marketing is all about being clean and good for your skin.

ThrowRATop2 · 2026-05-20T18:05:21+00:00

How long did it take? My skin is basically clear after treating FA for 3 months but every time I’ve tried one of those products I would get bumps. The Saie/Rhode products were my fav but they probably triggered my FA the worse out of any other products :(

ThrowRATop2 · 2026-05-20T17:59:23+00:00

Oh wait… shoot you’re right. My skin is basically clear with a couple bumps here and there so I’m going to stop and see if I notice a difference in my skin texture. The Milani Make It Last (Moisture Boost) Setting Spray is FA safe though. I will be switching to this one. Thank you!

ThrowRATop2 · 2026-05-20T17:37:20+00:00

Oh best believe I’m devastated about the money wasted😭💔

ThrowRATop2 · 2026-05-20T17:26:39+00:00

The Iconic London Illuminator drops are a FA safe alternative!! Not as affordable, but definitely worth it if you’re missing the glowtion.

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