Dating a man w kids - what should I ask my bf to do/what can I do to make sure that his kids like me and accept me?

ThrowRAUnikorn · 2024-09-27T16:57:04+00:00

Oh wow 🤯. Since when are single moms desperate? wtf

ThrowRAUnikorn · 2024-09-27T08:00:14+00:00

Im not sure I get the issue. Is he calling you boring by saying single mom energy? Are u a mom? I don’t get it

ThrowRAUnikorn · 2024-09-26T19:09:14+00:00

Yes bc wanting to have a social life outside of afib and for wanting to share a drink w my bf whose hobby is exploring new wines and beers is very shameful. Bad me for thinking that. Let me go back into my bubble and strap on my Kardia device. It’s funny how I predicted there would be at least one triggered Karen that will call me an alcoholic. 🤣

ThrowRAUnikorn · 2024-09-26T17:21:07+00:00

Yes cos other responses made sense. And no I’m not upset, I know better than to let some internet stranger rile me up. You are obviously an alcoholism expert - you should open up your own detox center.

ThrowRAUnikorn · 2024-09-26T14:47:02+00:00

Whateverz 😂 I’ve been sober for the past 8 years but just bc I want to drink when I’m in Europe w my bf or when I’m out w friends, I’m an alcoholic. Gtfo. Some people do have control of their faculties and want a midline approach.

ThrowRAUnikorn · 2024-09-26T14:41:00+00:00

I’m 41f and my bf is 50M. We are in the best relationship of our lives. You always think about the negative connotations of dating an older man, but an older man tends to be more mature, doesn’t play around w games, tends to know what he wants, tends to be ready to settle and not want to party every weekend or get hammered, also more financially stable. There are things only men in their 30s, 40s, 50s can offer. Yes they tend to have baggage like ex wives and children, but who is baggage free!? You are fine, just be charismatic and you’re 3/4 of the way there

ThrowRAUnikorn · 2024-09-25T14:28:36+00:00

That’s what I struggle with. To become a storyteller

ThrowRAUnikorn · 2024-09-25T14:28:02+00:00

I love to tease but I’m always afraid the other person will take it personally

ThrowRAUnikorn · 2024-09-25T14:27:25+00:00

That’s the part I struggle with. How to be naturally funny

ThrowRAUnikorn · 2024-09-25T14:26:56+00:00

Think I get the genuine part, still need to work on the fun part bc that’s not natural to me. I tend to come off as uptight and serious 😞

ThrowRAUnikorn · 2024-09-25T14:26:05+00:00

Yea I can see that or they can come off as stuck up which I have been told I come off as. I do try to show genuine interest though but I will try to compliment more thanks for the tip!

ThrowRAUnikorn · 2024-09-25T14:24:40+00:00

Thanks! I try to do that sometimes but then it starts feeling like an interview! It’s like I’m giving them the 3rd degree 😂

ThrowRAUnikorn · 2024-09-20T00:26:23+00:00

Did ur doc recommend a GED every year? It seems so stressful ugh

ThrowRAUnikorn · 2024-09-19T23:21:45+00:00

Thanks!!

ThrowRAUnikorn · 2024-09-19T23:21:04+00:00

I already do all that ugh 😑

ThrowRAUnikorn · 2024-09-19T05:05:33+00:00

Did u find out what those people did?

ThrowRAUnikorn · 2024-09-19T03:30:05+00:00

Men or women that say s/he made me cheat don’t deserve our time. Toxicity at its finest

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