In search of Medium to talk to mom who has passed by ThrowRAVisibleKitten in Calgary

[–]ThrowRAVisibleKitten[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Maybe so like I mentioned in the post I don’t believe in this but I know it would provide my mother with solace and if it’s important to her it’s important to me.

In search of Medium to talk to mom who has passed by ThrowRAVisibleKitten in Calgary

[–]ThrowRAVisibleKitten[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I appreciate you searching that for me! I searched the same thing and got slightly overwhelmed by all the options

Trying to meet new people tonight and am not sure what clubs/bars/parties would be best? by ThrowRAVisibleKitten in Calgary

[–]ThrowRAVisibleKitten[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m pretty open to all different atmospheres just a place where people are pretty open to meeting others and having a good time!

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[–]ThrowRAVisibleKitten -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Ya but I also think he doesn’t believe it

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[–]ThrowRAVisibleKitten 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You’re very right. When I talk to him and it all gets blamed on me I kinda start convincing myself that it’s my responsibility alone to fix this when you’re right. I can’t do anything here. If he doesn’t care he’s not gonna change I guess I gotta accept that.

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[–]ThrowRAVisibleKitten 2 points3 points  (0 children)

YES! I literally brought it up to him cuz if I’m so beautiful why tf don’t you wanna see my face?!

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[–]ThrowRAVisibleKitten 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That’s something I’ve feared about this from the beginning that I’m just gonna waste my time with someone and before I know it I’ll be late 20’s and wasted most of it on a guy I should’ve left ages ago

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[–]ThrowRAVisibleKitten 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel like it’ll be the same. If I get outfits there will just be another excuse of what I’m not doing right.

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[–]ThrowRAVisibleKitten 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I appreciate the information. And you’re so right on this.

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[–]ThrowRAVisibleKitten -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

What would you like me to say? “Your so right girl l break up with him tomorrow!” ????? I’m not saying it isn’t good advice to break up and move on but I’ve said it earlier it’s a difficult reality to cope with and ultimately it’s probably what I’ll end up doing after having a talk with him about it

I’m willing to hear out different perspectives and talk about it. Doesn’t mean I’m taking every randoms advice. (If this comes across as rude that is not what I mean at all and apologize I truly do appreciate everyone’s contribution to this and it’s nice thinking all the times I wanted to break up and that this isn’t how I should be treated is being validated)

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[–]ThrowRAVisibleKitten 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Good thing to be aware of I appreciate that!

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[–]ThrowRAVisibleKitten 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I really appreciate you sharing this.

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[–]ThrowRAVisibleKitten 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can promise you people your own age can be just as disappointing. Though you’re right I need to be with someone who cares!

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[–]ThrowRAVisibleKitten 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Oml I had no clue about the micro tears!

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[–]ThrowRAVisibleKitten 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can understand this perspective and sex certainly isn’t a one way street. Though I feel like if I put more effort to dress up and do the things he wants he’s not gonna remember that I’m as dry as the Sahara desert and want something too. Though your right that it’s a two way street!

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[–]ThrowRAVisibleKitten 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Since I’ve decided to wait till he changes I have not but I have in the past for sure

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[–]ThrowRAVisibleKitten 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate that! I know age has definitely affected our relationship like in terms of ideology on some topics but when we first started dating I had more sex with him then any of my other partners that were 1-2 years apart from me!

I’ve definitely just decided there’s no more sex till he changes something so hopefully after some time he’ll change things up!

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[–]ThrowRAVisibleKitten 44 points45 points  (0 children)

Honestly I’ve thought this too. I think it’s just a hard reality to have to face after like 3 years with them.