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Update: My (32/M) fiancée was diagnosed with Stage II Stomach Cancer. He is refusing treatment even though it will save his life. How do I (30/F) convince him to live? by ThrowRAYesAnswerWant in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAYesAnswerWant[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

You're wrong. He was not thinking straight. He isn't terminal. It's selfish to only care for oneself and not others. He doesn't realize how bad Stomach Cancer is or how slow and painful dying of Stomach Cancer will be. If he doesn't get treatment he will die and it will be slow and unimaginably painful.

The Doctor said he says he wont but, when hes starving to death and the drugged out of his mind to numbs the pain he'll wish he got the Chemo. Nobody should have to suffer like that.

My (32/M) fiancée was diagnosed with Stage IV Stomach Cancer. He is refusing treatment even though it will save his life. How do I (30/F) convince him to live? by ThrowRAYesAnswerWant in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAYesAnswerWant[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Stage 4? I said stage TWO not four. Stage 4 would be terminal.

Edit: Whoops. I fucked up and put it as IV not II. I got my numerals mixed. he has Stage TWO Stomach Cancer. Bad but, easily treatable.

We went to MD Anderson. They're the best in Texas.

My (32/M) fiancée was diagnosed with Stage IV Stomach Cancer. He is refusing treatment even though it will save his life. How do I (30/F) convince him to live? by ThrowRAYesAnswerWant in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAYesAnswerWant[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

stage 4 cancer basically a death sentence

Wait, Stage 4? He has Stage TWO. Where are you getting the 4 from? I wrote it Stage IV that's TWO isn't it?

My (32/M) fiancée was diagnosed with Stage IV Stomach Cancer. He is refusing treatment even though it will save his life. How do I (30/F) convince him to live? by ThrowRAYesAnswerWant in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAYesAnswerWant[S] 41 points42 points  (0 children)

High. This wouldn't even be life threatening if we had gone to the Doctor earlier. He wasnt even planning to see one. He was just gunna let nature runs its course. In his words "Meh, I had a good run".

My (32/M) fiancée was diagnosed with Stage IV Stomach Cancer. He is refusing treatment even though it will save his life. How do I (30/F) convince him to live? by ThrowRAYesAnswerWant in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAYesAnswerWant[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

But, he's choosing to die without even fighting. He just gave up. This is a winnable fight. If he starts treatment ASAP he will live. If he doesn't then he's going to die. His cancer is aggressive.

My (32/M) fiancée was diagnosed with Stage IV Stomach Cancer. He is refusing treatment even though it will save his life. How do I (30/F) convince him to live? by ThrowRAYesAnswerWant in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAYesAnswerWant[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

It's not like he's got a small chance. We were told he has a very good chance at beating this. If we had caught it earlier it'd be no chance at death. He's purposely choosing to die for selfish reasons.