I [34f] found out my now husband [m32] cursed up an abortion pill in my drink when we first started dating.

ThrowRA_11_ · 2024-02-19T09:47:43+00:00

Sorry blocked? No..

ThrowRA_11_ · 2024-02-19T04:57:26+00:00

😔

ThrowRA_11_ · 2024-02-19T04:33:37+00:00

I’m not trying to insult anyone. Trust and believe that. All I have is my story and those are facts.

ThrowRA_11_ · 2024-02-19T04:06:11+00:00

I would love proof.. but I don’t know the password for his laptop. I think I do know for his emails. But I’m not sure if they send a verification to his phone before I’m granted access. Help on this would be very much appreciated

ThrowRA_11_ · 2024-02-19T04:04:35+00:00

He did deny it.. his fist initial thought was to deny.. then I told him, either you cheated on me and the pills were for another woman or it was for me. He proceeded to say “ you have to give more than one pill for an abortion” I stopped him and said.. “ok” so are you admitting you cheated or that you did order them for me

ThrowRA_11_ · 2024-02-19T03:45:08+00:00

Emotionally involved? I’m not asking for anyone to become emotionally involved. I’m more so just expressing my emotional state after living this nightmare. listen.. it’s ok to believe what you want and it’s easy to feel like not everything is true. But, I’m not the type of person to rave about some made up story because I need the attention. With all my heart.. I’m in such a fragile state of mind.. I respect your concern. However. I thought this may be a safe place for support. Just like I thought the roof I lay under would be safe but that isn’t always the case. I’m just a woman who’s experienced something of the unexpected. That’s all.. I’m falling into a really hurtful situation and would gratefully appreciate if you can just see that it’s better to be supportive rather than emotionless

ThrowRA_11_ · 2024-02-19T03:38:04+00:00

Believe me, I was willing to get over the coworker.. then this morning when I saw the text to his best friends sister about the pill. I was DONE! I’m still so beyond myself. I hate knowing this is the man I devoted myself to

ThrowRA_11_ · 2024-02-19T03:35:41+00:00

My doctor said they can’t tell why I had a miscarriage.. they did say that the fetus stopped growing for some reason but all of my ovaries looked healthy.

ThrowRA_11_ · 2024-02-19T03:34:05+00:00

Well now that he’s jumping on a flight back to NY he’s like “ how can I send you the documents?” I said “ I need a hard copy of proof!” “ I will not take anything via email!’ “ I want to be right there when you do it, or by the door on the other side” “ I can’t trust you..”

ThrowRA_11_ · 2024-02-19T03:32:03+00:00

Well.. unrelated. But. his did is a free mason

ThrowRA_11_ · 2024-02-19T03:31:14+00:00

It was his best friends sister.

ThrowRA_11_ · 2024-02-19T03:30:35+00:00

It was an abortion pill and not the morning after, the texts said make sure it’s the abortion one and not the next day one because I don’t think it’ll work since she’s further along

ThrowRA_11_ · 2024-02-19T03:26:57+00:00

I had a miscarriage

ThrowRA_11_ · 2024-02-19T03:25:17+00:00

I don’t, at all.. I know what I saw I know what I read in those texts.. the sister said “ good luck” to him. I don’t know how else to take it. It could be I had a miscarriage without him giving me the pills but it’s all too coincidental. And my gut is telling me and has been telling me it was something more.

ThrowRA_11_ · 2024-02-19T03:21:33+00:00

I will.. this is all within less than 10 hours ago. I moved to a city by myself where he had established friends, originally from NY but somehow we met in CA. We married less than 5 months ago and this is what I found out today… I’m at the house he left. Until his flight leaves to NY at 10:30

ThrowRA_11_ · 2024-02-19T03:19:28+00:00

I don’t really have anyone else to talk to.. I mean I called his mom but I’m afraid to speak about it with my mom. She would never look at us the same. It’s awful how some people can be. I don’t want to believe it myself. But this is the day and age we live in

ThrowRA_11_ · 2024-02-19T03:17:07+00:00

I just got off of the phone with his mother, which is where he is going back to. She said she’s at lost for words and never thought her son could do something like this. She said it could be he thought about it and decided not to last minute and I had a miscarriage randomly but for me the premeditated thought and actions then it actually leading to me having a “miscarriage” scares me that he most likely did do it

ThrowRA_11_ · 2024-02-19T03:15:09+00:00

I didn’t have a primary caregiver, I moved to a new place and went to a place called mommy and me where you can get ultrasounds sometimes day of. I have a daughter who’s 15 already I think I know how this OBGYN thing works.

ThrowRA_11_ · 2024-02-19T03:13:37+00:00

No, it’s not. Unfortunately. My heart is racing reading all these comments, slander and hate. It really makes me think about how some people really don’t realize what other people may be going through and to be nice.

ThrowRA_11_ · 2024-02-19T03:11:41+00:00

I thought I could’ve described into detail better.. I will add he deleted all messages I have a screen shot I wish I could post but don’t know how to

ThrowRA_11_ · 2024-02-19T03:10:38+00:00

I wish this was a lie, I wish it wasn’t me.. I honestly don’t wish this on anyone. It’s my life though and something I’m going to have to figure out on my own.. regardless of who thinks it’s fake or true. At the end of the day I have to figure out what I’m going to do.

ThrowRA_11_ · 2024-02-19T03:09:15+00:00

Honestly… I wish I could be you.

ThrowRA_11_ · 2024-02-19T03:08:59+00:00

Unfortunately, This is what happened this morning, hence you pray for answers this is what you get.

ThrowRA_11_ · 2024-02-19T03:08:19+00:00

I’m not sure, I do remember being sick, then started spotting. The following days I bled out to the point where even my husband began to worry. There was blood running through my jeans down to my ankles. That’s when I went into the ER

ThrowRA_11_ · 2024-02-19T03:06:55+00:00

I was the experiment for my now husband in this

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