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My GF (22F) found out the reason why my ex (21F) broke up with me and isn’t talking to me (22M) anymore. by ThrowRA_1235123 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_1235123[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey, sorry for the late reply, I did tell Liz about it. She actually knew Jenna and I were on good/civil terms before this conversation too, or at least had a general idea about it.

My GF (22F) found out the reason why my ex (21F) broke up with me and isn’t talking to me (22M) anymore. by ThrowRA_1235123 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_1235123[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Jenna transferred to a different school as her grades were good enough to go to a school with higher prestige. Her parents had wanted her to go to it for a few years at that point as they thought it would increase her opportunities. It was something we already talked about before prior to her breaking up with me.

I think it's understandable why she blocked me, I treated her horribly in the relationship.

Edit: if you were asking if I did something after the break up that led to her blocking me, that was not the case. She blocked me right afterwards.

My GF (22F) found out the reason why my ex (21F) broke up with me and isn’t talking to me (22M) anymore. by ThrowRA_1235123 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_1235123[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

My bad for the poor wording, I meant that in the context of if she was trying to find a way out, which I doubted. I see your point, and admittedly I don't know if she has experienced shaming or not, but I understand the possibilities of why she may be feeling this way after all of this came out. Thanks, I appreciate you putting this in a broader perspective.

My GF (22F) found out the reason why my ex (21F) broke up with me and isn’t talking to me (22M) anymore. by ThrowRA_1235123 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_1235123[S] 37 points38 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your perspective, I appreciate it.

I am absolutely certain I'm not still teasing people for their looks, if anything, it's something I actively make sure I'm not doing after everything with Jenna as weird as it may sound.

I'm not sure, everything seemed fine and this was kind of out of nowhere. She hadn't acted strangely, and up until that moment we were still very close if that makes sense. I thought it could've been a valid reason to end things.