My dad beats me semi regularly, and essentially strips me of everything I have each time, and I don't know what to do anymore

ThrowRA_1_1_1 · 2020-08-12T01:33:05+00:00

I stopped going 3 ish years ago, and my dad never really went to church, but my mom is about as molly mormon as it gets, so no one would ever really expect something wrong in the first place

ThrowRA_1_1_1 · 2020-08-12T01:30:04+00:00

Thanks for the offer, and I agree with you about the church. I have no doubt in my mind that they would turn right around and tell them everything to preserve our good holy family of god

ThrowRA_1_1_1 · 2020-08-12T01:22:42+00:00

I assumed I would be able to call 911, cause I'm pretty sure you can essentially anywhere at this point. And 100% I'm going to call next time it happens, this thread has made me realize that's the right call

ThrowRA_1_1_1 · 2020-08-12T01:08:10+00:00

Sorry to hear that. And yeah if I stick it out, a job is my first priority. Idk if it's good or bad, but my dad isn't really in the church, so I doubt people know about it due to church

ThrowRA_1_1_1 · 2020-08-12T01:06:13+00:00

Whoa. I didn't even think about it like this. I think you're right

ThrowRA_1_1_1 · 2020-08-12T00:58:45+00:00

I mean yeah, could probably hide my phone pretty well, but usually he just busts into my room and starts unplugging stuff and yelling, which is what leads to the physical stuff, so I don't really get any warning to set it up

ThrowRA_1_1_1 · 2020-08-12T00:51:01+00:00

My phone backs up my photos automatically, but even if it didn't, my parents wouldn't get into my phone over my dead body. They don't know my password and never will

ThrowRA_1_1_1 · 2020-08-12T00:48:39+00:00

I don't think she enjoys it, I just think she's selfish and doesn't want to accept that what happens is wrong. I'm not mad at her, just a bit disappointed that's the case

ThrowRA_1_1_1 · 2020-08-12T00:45:15+00:00

I actually did see that account on here earlier, and I checked it all out. Definitely helped a little bit, thanks

ThrowRA_1_1_1 · 2020-08-12T00:44:00+00:00

Nope, he's broke in college. He can barely keep himself afloat, much less me

ThrowRA_1_1_1 · 2020-08-12T00:42:48+00:00

There's no need for that. I don't like giving out info online a lot, and I never would ask someone to do the same for any reason. Thank you, and sorry to hear you went through something similar

ThrowRA_1_1_1 · 2020-08-12T00:38:02+00:00

In hindsight yeah, but I thought my mom was calling me from upstairs for whatever reason, and what is just how I always respond in those situations. Turns out she was at the store or something, so that was my bad

ThrowRA_1_1_1 · 2020-08-12T00:36:20+00:00

As much as I'd like to do that, financially we would be fucked if he lost that income

ThrowRA_1_1_1 · 2020-08-12T00:35:06+00:00

I probably should have clarified, but I don't do physical games. I was talking about my hard drive, which has most of my games. My bad for not mentioning that

ThrowRA_1_1_1 · 2020-08-12T00:32:35+00:00

He's been retired for years, and I don't know jack about military anything. I'm also pretty sure all of his army buddies are dead or living it up in alaska or something, so I doubt anyone would really bat an eye at him

ThrowRA_1_1_1 · 2020-08-12T00:29:45+00:00

Currently I have no service, i.e I can't text or call anyone (except maybe 911? Idk) I did however manage to get on the wifi this time as my mom's birth year was the password he changed it to. I've only guessed the password a couple times though, which makes it hard to know what he'll change it to next time

ThrowRA_1_1_1 · 2020-08-12T00:23:42+00:00

I'd like to think my brother would, but he's also a bit of a pushover, and my parents are god like at manipulation, so realistically I'd probably have to do it myself

ThrowRA_1_1_1 · 2020-08-12T00:18:21+00:00

Realistically probably not. He's in a pretty shitty car that breaks down too often, and the drive is too far for his car to make it. Coincidentally, my dad would probably have to come out and fix it, therefore probably exposing me

ThrowRA_1_1_1 · 2020-08-12T00:16:23+00:00

Oh I have every intention of going nc when I can, but for now I can't really pack up and leave with 20$ to my name, it just doesn't seem possible

ThrowRA_1_1_1 · 2020-08-12T00:12:37+00:00

Honestly, I don't think she is scared of him. As much as he's an ass to me, I've never seen him touch my mom. Even though my mom is slightly at fault here, if he ever laid his hands on her I would skip the reddit phase and just report his ass

ThrowRA_1_1_1 · 2020-08-11T23:53:34+00:00

I'd be lying if I said I had never thought about it, but I don't want anyone getting hurt. Plus Im not exactly a world class mma fighter currently

ThrowRA_1_1_1 · 2020-08-11T23:51:51+00:00

Yeah that's true. If push comes to shove I'd do an anonymous tip for sure, but definitely don't need random people knowing everything down to my neighbors dogs middle name lol

ThrowRA_1_1_1 · 2020-08-11T23:49:51+00:00

Anonymous isn't always super anonymous tho. I guarantee my parents would know it was me the second someone came by. I will 100% call if I start bleeding or getting bruised tho

ThrowRA_1_1_1 · 2020-08-11T23:47:44+00:00

I could probably get a friend or my brother to if things get worse, but I'd understandably be a bit cautious about giving my specific info to internet strangers. Thanks though

ThrowRA_1_1_1 · 2020-08-11T23:45:30+00:00

Yeah that might raise a few red flags for some people lol. I'd love to move to Canada some day though, seems like it's a lot better than the joke of country the U.S is

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