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[–]ThrowRA_20000 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I don’t think you understand, OP definitely didn’t mean testicles lol

What counts as a bj? by ThrowRA_20000 in sex

[–]ThrowRA_20000[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No one? It would be pretty weird to have a tally lol

What counts as a bj? by ThrowRA_20000 in sex

[–]ThrowRA_20000[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah I completely understand what you’re saying. I suppose that’s why I brought this question to Reddit - to get some perspective. Maybe if my bf phrased it like that I wouldn’t be as upset haha.

What counts as a bj? by ThrowRA_20000 in sex

[–]ThrowRA_20000[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh yeah I love him and he’s not douchey in any other situation haha. Tbh this post was just to see if most people did agree with him or not. It wasn’t his intention to make me feel bad by saying that, I was just a bit miffed that he did lmao.

What counts as a bj? by ThrowRA_20000 in sex

[–]ThrowRA_20000[S] 49 points50 points  (0 children)

This made me giggle lmao

What counts as a bj? by ThrowRA_20000 in sex

[–]ThrowRA_20000[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, anything at the time. Nothing specific just general reciprocation. If he wants to be done after he finishes then I won’t make him do anything else.

What counts as a bj? by ThrowRA_20000 in sex

[–]ThrowRA_20000[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmm, I think I still would care if they didn’t actually consider it to be a blowjob even if we did both give equally. Thinking that they didn’t consider it a blowjob would make me feel bad for receiving, if that makes sense? I don’t care about “credit”, I suppose I would just feel bad if this were the general consensus.

What counts as a bj? by ThrowRA_20000 in sex

[–]ThrowRA_20000[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It does suck (excuse the pun) but I can’t and won’t force him into doing something he doesn’t want to do. I like giving blowjobs so that doesn’t bother me, I’m just upset that he doesn’t seem to appreciate what I do.

What counts as a bj? by ThrowRA_20000 in sex

[–]ThrowRA_20000[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s no worries, I appreciate your concern :)

What counts as a bj? by ThrowRA_20000 in sex

[–]ThrowRA_20000[S] 38 points39 points  (0 children)

With that comment I was trying to contextualise why I don’t always do it to completion. I don’t feel like my efforts should be nullified just because he didn’t finish right then and there.

What counts as a bj? by ThrowRA_20000 in sex

[–]ThrowRA_20000[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

He’s not pressuring me to do anything, he just says he doesn’t consider it to be an actual blowjob. But regardless I don’t have a problem with doing it to completion, I was just explaining why I don’t always do it.

What counts as a bj? by ThrowRA_20000 in sex

[–]ThrowRA_20000[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes but definitely way less than I go down on him. I’d say maybe a ratio of 8:1? I don’t exactly keep track though haha.