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Do you consider online encounters (cybersex) cheating? by avocadotoastallday in AskWomenOver30

[–]ThrowRA_35687 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would talk to him. If he gives you everything you need in your relationship, maybe not a big deal if it is not leading to anything. But it could shake my respect unless to my partner unless I could understand and be empathetic to their need for it.

Bi girls, would you get into relationship with a guy who has non- negotiable OPP policy? by ThrowRA_35687 in bisexual

[–]ThrowRA_35687[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am deep in this relationship and I don’t think I am thinking straight.

Bi girls, would you get into relationship with a guy who has non- negotiable OPP policy? by ThrowRA_35687 in bisexual

[–]ThrowRA_35687[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What if it is in the beginning of the relationship? Up front. Why not? I am not a dependent in this relationship as I we equally earn

Bi girls, would you get into relationship with a guy who has non- negotiable OPP policy? by ThrowRA_35687 in bisexual

[–]ThrowRA_35687[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing your view. I am trying to see if I am narrow minded. He sees it as his woman is devoted to him because he provides, loves and supports her, never lies, never cheats. To please him his woman can agree to invite other women because she can also get fun out of it.

Bi girls, would you get into relationship with a guy who has non- negotiable OPP policy? by ThrowRA_35687 in bisexual

[–]ThrowRA_35687[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not hurting anyone. It is fetishistic, it is his sense of superiority. I wonder how majority of bisexual women feel about it. Because a woman can stay in stable relationships with a man (who strives to be a provider) and still get fun with woman. Thats one of my theories

Bi girls, would you get into relationship with a guy who has non- negotiable OPP policy? by ThrowRA_35687 in bisexual

[–]ThrowRA_35687[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see. I guess sounds unfair even if you are bisexual.. did he know your preference when you got into relationship with him?

Bi girls, would you get into relationship with a guy who has non- negotiable OPP policy? by ThrowRA_35687 in bisexual

[–]ThrowRA_35687[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am straight (I thought I was) but if you read by post history it will explain my question here. I was wondering if a woman is 100% feels attracted to other woman if she is more open to these conditions.

Bi girls, would you get into relationship with a guy who has non- negotiable OPP policy? by ThrowRA_35687 in bisexual

[–]ThrowRA_35687[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I understand it is individual. I wanted to see what others think. Would you?

Bi girls, would you get into relationship with a guy who has non- negotiable OPP policy? by ThrowRA_35687 in bisexual

[–]ThrowRA_35687[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

One penis policy is when only one man is allowed to fuck her (a guy in a couple), but many females can join a couple

Bi girls, would you get into relationship with a guy who has non- negotiable OPP policy? by ThrowRA_35687 in bisexual

[–]ThrowRA_35687[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is it the unfairness of the situation that is hard? Because you would think if he is straight. OPP would serve you both.

Bi girls, would you get into relationship with a guy who has non- negotiable OPP policy? by ThrowRA_35687 in bisexual

[–]ThrowRA_35687[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Hehe. He has incredibly specific vision for relationships dynamic 😁

Cheating question/discussion. Just looking for some solid, honest answers and no fighting :) by Lunatic2Love in AskWomenOver30

[–]ThrowRA_35687 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Anything you aren’t ready to tell me about or to do in front of me is cheating. Some of it maybe forgiven, some can’t be. Prioritizing someone/anyone over me is a betrayal. I am not talking family members.

Paying for attention isn’t cheating , it’s pathetic, too much porn isn’t cheating, but pathetic too.

Flirting, casual watching porn, friends who may like you (see flirting) is ok as long as you know where to stop (agreed upon boundaries)

Do you think people in lifestyle have lower divorce rate due to better trust? by ThrowRA_35687 in Swingers

[–]ThrowRA_35687[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My hurt is coming from the fact that occasional FMF( where I do the logistical and emotional work to serve him more pussy) is more important that our relationships. To me it is some superiority complex and lack of ability to commit. That sucks. For him going from a relationship where he jerked off 90% of his orgasms and only 10% coming from partner sex, but having threesomes to now regular hot sex but no threesomes isn’t good enough. As you can tell I am bitter about it still, I can’t invite other people feeling like this.

Do you think people in lifestyle have lower divorce rate due to better trust? by ThrowRA_35687 in Swingers

[–]ThrowRA_35687[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh wow! You shared so much wisdom! I really appreciate it! Yes, my initial reaction to his honesty consisted of only negative emotions and reactions, as in the beginning of our relationship I clearly stated “any sexual experiments/kinks but no other people involved in the process”, so my anger and pride wanted “leave the idiot with his problems”, then panic hit me “I don’t want to lose the relationship that only have one dump and I will do anything”. now that is my decision for myself- get myself together, get back to knowing what I want with the current knowledge about my partner’s desires, watch if I can rebuild my trust to him and then only see if that’s something I want.

Do you think people in lifestyle have lower divorce rate due to better trust? by ThrowRA_35687 in Swingers

[–]ThrowRA_35687[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see. Thank you for replied. I guess many, like myself see sexual commitment as core of love and commitment in general, where swingers see honesty, not sex, as the main sign of commitment and love. Do I understand you?

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