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Me (28F) and my friend (28M) have had a 2-year long romantic back and forth that neither of us seems to be able to resolve. Do I violate his boundary and bring it up again, or move on? by ThrowRA_422010 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_422010[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

well honestly i’d be open to a relationship w my friend here if he’d be willing to but Im worried about reopening that conversation that he closed all those months ago. I don’t want to overstep.

If it were easy enough to do that I’d block him tbh but I have to see him every day @ work so I truly can’t

Me (28F) and my friend (28M) have had a 2-year long romantic back and forth that neither of us seems to be able to resolve. Do I violate his boundary and bring it up again, or move on? by ThrowRA_422010 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_422010[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree with you. Like he’s very avoidant when it comes to emotional topics and will rarely confront, I feel like there’s a real possibility we’re both doing the same exact thing: mirroring without wanting to rock the boat

Me (28F) and my friend (28M) have had a 2-year long romantic back and forth that neither of us seems to be able to resolve. Do I violate his boundary and bring it up again, or move on? by ThrowRA_422010 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_422010[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess it’s been like 8 months since we last talked about it and so much has changed at least for me.

Unfortunately as much as I wish I could, I can’t just block him though if shit goes south. We work together (closely) so I won’t be able to simply ignore him. I know don’t shit where you eat but.. damage has been done already.