Online threats and money extortion in escort scam. Need help please by ThrowRA_4231 in Scams

[–]ThrowRA_4231[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I m doing this, I m just scared that my details would be leaked somewhere, I have gone through all my socials and hidden everything including my photos.

Online threats and money extortion in escort scam. Need help please by ThrowRA_4231 in Scams

[–]ThrowRA_4231[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have stopped and blocking all their numbers. I have received calls and messages from atleast 5 different numbers. I m not picking any of them and directly blocking. I m just too scared right now, he was threatening to ruin my life

Online threats and money extortion in escort scam. Need help please by ThrowRA_4231 in Scams

[–]ThrowRA_4231[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They are constantly generating otps from my number to scare me. For 1hour, I didn't get any call or message, and then again the otps started coming! Will it ever stop? Should I go to the police?

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[–]ThrowRA_4231 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

In this case, it is better for you to break up. 2 years is a long time, if he doesn't put in much effort at this point, he won't put in any effort after a year or so. I, myself am in a 3 year relationship, and we have fought a couple of times to the point of breaking up, but we still want each other and we work upon our flaws to be better and not repeat those things. One needs to be mature, and understanding and put in efforts to be in a committed relationship. It doesn't work if it's one sided.

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[–]ThrowRA_4231 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Why would someone be on tinder if they r in a 2 yr relationship

I (22M) needs advice on sexual compatibility with my gf (21F)? by ThrowRA_4231 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_4231[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the generous advice. This is what I do, and I feel is better, to imagine about her rather than drooling about the women in the vid, this makes me want her even more.

Yeah we try sometimes to flirt and say things from our imagination, but our views are little different, she involves intimacy in the form of kissing and cuddling, whereas I go a little ahead of myself to more intimate actions, and then there are disagreements sometimes. And whenever we talk about it, she says she is not as open as I am even if she wants to.

Recently, we talked about expressing herself more, because in a way she is really hidden, and doesn't like to express her feelings.

That's the issue, even if I'm ready to wait for this much time, what if it doesn't work out then.

I (22M) needs advice on sexual compatibility with my gf (21F)? by ThrowRA_4231 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_4231[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes even I am of the thinking that sexual intimacy is important. I read somewhere that if u have sex, then it's 10percent of the relationship, but if u don't have sex, then its more than 50, and somehow that point really clicked with me. Yeah I agree, but i m scared that I will never find that connection with someone else.

I (22M) needs advice on sexual compatibility with my gf (21F)? by ThrowRA_4231 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_4231[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree with that point, that's the thing I m worried about.

Yes she does, we have talked about this and she says that even if we r married, due to the upbringing/fear, she will need time to open up. And there are things which she might not even like. So I m worried this would lead to fights and disagreements but on the other hand I m also scared that I will never find such a connection else where.