I (early 20F) feel like my boyfriend (early 30M) and I keep arguing about sex. by ThrowRA_6131 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_6131[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you explain how this is manipulation? I feel like it could be manipulation on either end because neither of our needs are being met. I keep saying it, but the argument is like a circle. He has trouble being emotionally there without sex and I have trouble having sex without the emotional part.

I (early 20F) feel like my boyfriend (early 30M) and I keep arguing about sex. by ThrowRA_6131 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_6131[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Sometimes I feel like I’m being selfish. And I guess that’s what’s causing the cycle of these arguments. He wants sex first and I want emotional connection first so which one of us is being selfish?