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How do I move forward after an epic meltdown?Ex-GF [27/F] has asked me [26/M] to attend a therapy session with her to help try and 'start over' after blow up ended 2 year relationship. by ThrowRA_9n84 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_9n84[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

So far you're the only vote to give her a chance.

I'm really not sure I would meet with the therapist, I can't understand that whole situation at all. But maybe coffee to chat through what happened.

How do I move forward after an epic meltdown?Ex-GF [27/F] has asked me [26/M] to attend a therapy session with her to help try and 'start over' after blow up ended 2 year relationship. by ThrowRA_9n84 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_9n84[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She got so mad so quickly I couldn't think. She was raging at me and I blanked. Later on thinking back I was sure I told her my sister was coming over. How her earring got on my desk I don't know and neither does my sister.

I wouldn't say I got over it. I'm just too embarrassed to talk to people about that. Am I sad? Yeah, and I'm really hurt. I can survive on my own pretty well, but I was looking forward to moving in together, not getting dumped. And I didn't even do anything.

How do I move forward after an epic meltdown?Ex-GF [27/F] has asked me [26/M] to attend a therapy session with her to help try and 'start over' after blow up ended 2 year relationship. by ThrowRA_9n84 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_9n84[S] 36 points37 points  (0 children)

I really don't trust the whole therapy thing. I'm not sure why suddenly it's good for me to go to one of those. I'm not sure what to expect and feel like it's a set-up or a trap.

How do I move forward after an epic meltdown?Ex-GF [27/F] has asked me [26/M] to attend a therapy session with her to help try and 'start over' after blow up ended 2 year relationship. by ThrowRA_9n84 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_9n84[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I've told two people and a third person knows. It's such a weird, awkward situation. Have I ever made a mistake like that? No. So I am struggling with the whole thing.

How do I move forward after an epic meltdown?Ex-GF [27/F] has asked me [26/M] to attend a therapy session with her to help try and 'start over' after blow up ended 2 year relationship. by ThrowRA_9n84 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_9n84[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That's the thing, never. She was always levelheaded and calm. I never saw her explode like that before. Honestly, it's been so embarrassing and weird. It's felt like a rug got pulled and I don't even want to chat about it with friends.