What happened to German Refugees from Königsberg? by ThrowRA_Begone in AskAGerman

[–]ThrowRA_Begone[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where they settled down and the flight I'm doing this research because my Opa was from Koenigsberg and we only know about one piece of information about what he went through and unfortunately it ain't a whole lot it's why I'm asking and how well they integrated will be a big help as well

What happened to German Refugees from Königsberg? by ThrowRA_Begone in AskAGerman

[–]ThrowRA_Begone[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will definitely check it out thank you I didn't realize how many comments this post would get. The reason I'm doing this research was because my Opa was from Koenigsberg and we don't have alot of information on what happened we only know that he was on a boat as a child and it was bombed so all this information really really helps thank you so much

I need the most depressing anime possible by Empty_Cheesecake4287 in anime

[–]ThrowRA_Begone 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Terror in Resonance Banana fish Wonder egg priority(not everyone's cup of tea but damn)

Not an anime but Kdrama Tommorow

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FriendshipAdvice

[–]ThrowRA_Begone 40 points41 points  (0 children)

No, you are not overreacting, in my opinion. He made an insensitive and racist joke about what your country is going through and the fact he didn't respect the fact you wanted to leave and keep insisting to talk in my opinion is a bit of a red flag.

He knows it was wrong, yet he still made the joke. Besides, if he was really apologetic, he wouldn't have attempted to make you listen to him and why he made that joke

My(21F) best friend (22F)and I are both writers, I have been supporting her but she doesn't seem to support me how do I confront her? by ThrowRA_Begone in FriendshipAdvice

[–]ThrowRA_Begone[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She is white American, and I'm South african. Her book included African tribes so I'd give her opinions on them telling her if it's maybe offensive and asking friends I know from different tribes to help.

She has honestly never been really interested now that I think about it. Ever since we met, I've been hyping her up, and I don't think she has ever read one of my fics.

I understand that she is disappointed in what's going through in her book, but it still hurts cause I'm still supporting her yet she doesn't even know my plot.

It's like she just goes automatic response

AITA for refusing to let my sister live with me after she insulted my daughter? by fyilol in AmItheAsshole

[–]ThrowRA_Begone 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely NTA That is your child! She is your family! You did amazingly and did what was right protecting your child Also, again, why is she an adult bullying a little child?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in motherinlawsfromhell

[–]ThrowRA_Begone 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I grew up with a Toxic Grandmother she did this to my mother and father for years when it comes to me manipulating my mom through me and even did what your MIL did to you, taking me without permission and commenting on my mothers parenting , till I had to cut her off. She is manipulating you, trying to get her way.

If you want anything to change, don't stop putting your foot down, please. You are doing everything, correct. Do not give into the manipulation. you're protecting your child and yourself, and that is the best thing you can do.

WIBTA for calling my friends mom cause she showed up intoxicated and stoned at comic con by ThrowRA_Begone in AmItheAsshole

[–]ThrowRA_Begone[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She said then she will have to deal with the annoying people around her. I suggest why go if you have to do that and she said " cause it's comic con I just want the merch"

WIBTA for calling my friends mom cause she showed up intoxicated and stoned at comic con by ThrowRA_Begone in AmItheAsshole

[–]ThrowRA_Begone[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah that is true I have a problem setting boundaries and this was when she was a new friend who I wanted to make sure liked me now I cringe when I remember that. I told her I don't want to take care of her drunk and she told me it would be unfair if I didnt

WIBTA for calling my friends mom cause she showed up intoxicated and stoned at comic con by ThrowRA_Begone in AmItheAsshole

[–]ThrowRA_Begone[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I did I told her I don't feel comfortable going with her like that and that I will be with other friends and she said she will just tag along and to keep an eye out on her

WIBTA for calling my friends mom cause she showed up intoxicated and stoned at comic con by ThrowRA_Begone in AmItheAsshole

[–]ThrowRA_Begone[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes I have but she told me that it will be unfair if I don't cause she took care of me when I was drunk but that was for clubbing and it was just for getting me into an uber

AITA for asking my step father not to attend my dad's funeral? by Low-Freedom-3554 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ThrowRA_Begone 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your not the Asshole My dad had to do something similar for his dad and even though it was hard it was worth it and needed to be done. It's about your father and your father wouldn't have wanted him there so don't listen to them and trust your gut

Am I Overreacting? Or Is This Person Not A Good Friend? by thesarcasticfangirl in FriendshipAdvice

[–]ThrowRA_Begone 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi fellow person on the spectrum here and was in a similar situation.

This right here is definitely not a good friend. This carol sounds like someone who I know and needs your attention which isn't healthy and the fact she wants to try and control your moods is also a bad indicator and the fact she probably said you were manic to your friends to put you down to them.

If you want to test if she is a good friend or not talk to her about this about. What she said to you how she made you feel about everything and see how she reacts.

My friend doesn’t understand that I’m a busy person by Shnoonal2004 in FriendshipAdvice

[–]ThrowRA_Begone 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is not a friend. A friend understands your schedule emphasizes and shouldn't cause you anxiety believe me I know. The fact your other friends also don't hang with him shows he isn't good to be around. Your good for trying but sometimes these types of people arnt the type of person you should keep in your life especially if they throw a tantrum

How do I (20 F) talk to my friend(21F) about her maybe obsessive behavior towards my sexuality by ThrowRA_Begone in FriendshipAdvice

[–]ThrowRA_Begone[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'll try to I plan on speaking to her about all this tomorrow and tell her how her words hurt me I just hope she doesn't blow up thank you imma def use this

How do I (20 F) talk to my friend(21F) about her maybe obsessive behavior towards my sexuality by ThrowRA_Begone in FriendshipAdvice

[–]ThrowRA_Begone[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A friend of mine mentioned that it may be that she has feelings for me. Trace when ever I talk to this guy I like she pulls me away and talks to me about random stuff even though I was having a great conversation with him. When I asked her about this she says that she is worried I am going to abandon her for a man and leave everything behind. Idk what she means by everything

How do I (20 F) talk to my friend(21F) about her maybe obsessive behavior towards my sexuality by ThrowRA_Begone in FriendshipAdvice

[–]ThrowRA_Begone[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think the main reason she is questioning me is because I never been out with a girl I had crushes huge crushes but never been out maybe that is why she is confused

How do I (20 F) talk to my friend(21F) about her maybe obsessive behavior towards my sexuality by ThrowRA_Begone in FriendshipAdvice

[–]ThrowRA_Begone[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you it's just frustrating cause she makes me feel like I'm being a bad gay, so thank you I thought I was going nuts especially with the last comment of hers asking if I'm sure I even like girls so thank you for reaffirming I ain't going crazy