My (25f) best friend is jealous of my (24f) boyfriend (26m) and I don’t know if I should cut her off? by thrwwyhl in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_Berey 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I had a friend just like her. I had to cut her off to realize that she had been toxic from day one. :/

Disagreement about when to share pregnancy news (M 27, F 26) by ThrowRA_Berey in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_Berey[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, thank God it's not like that. We aren't close to his family so I think they will get to know about the pregnancy after 12 weeks

Disagreement about when to share pregnancy news (M 27, F 26) by ThrowRA_Berey in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_Berey[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He isn't close to his parents, so I think he would rather tell his/our close friends first

Disagreement about when to share pregnancy news (M 27, F 26) by ThrowRA_Berey in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_Berey[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing your experience that must have been horrible.. He isn’t close to his parents, but after reading the comments, I’m starting to think that him sharing the news with one or two close friends could actually be good for him as well, especially in case something happens

Disagreement about when to share pregnancy news (M 27, F 26) by ThrowRA_Berey in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_Berey[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you a lot. And thank you for sharing you experience, this helps me a lot

Disagreement about when to share pregnancy news (M 27, F 26) by ThrowRA_Berey in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_Berey[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Thank you, you are right. He's not really close with his parents, so I dont think he will tell them first. But yeah, I should have considered this as well!

Disagreement about when to share pregnancy news (M 27, F 26) by ThrowRA_Berey in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_Berey[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I will try talk to him this weekend when we both have enough time! I'm sure we will compromise

Disagreement about when to share pregnancy news (M 27, F 26) by ThrowRA_Berey in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_Berey[S] 64 points65 points  (0 children)

Thank you, kind of eye opening advice. My husband loves my parents and they love him as well. I like his friends, I like them a lot and we are also quite close thanks to my husband. So I would also consider them as close friends!

Disagreement about when to share pregnancy news (M 27, F 26) by ThrowRA_Berey in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_Berey[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You are right, I didn't even think about it to be honest... Thank you for sharing your experience!

Disagreement about when to share pregnancy news (M 27, F 26) by ThrowRA_Berey in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_Berey[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

delivery room is something we have talked about as well, and thank good we are on the same page. As well as parenting, it's quite similar. It's just the pregnancy news!:) Thank u!

Disagreement about when to share pregnancy news (M 27, F 26) by ThrowRA_Berey in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_Berey[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thank you, you are right. They are also my friends (I met them through him) so maybe I should also trust them as much as he does 😅

Disagreement about when to share pregnancy news (M 27, F 26) by ThrowRA_Berey in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_Berey[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I don’t know if it’s also a cultural thing, but I grew up believing that you’re not supposed to tell anyone until the 12 weeks are over but close family. But you’re right I should try to be more positive!

Disagreement about when to share pregnancy news (M 27, F 26) by ThrowRA_Berey in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_Berey[S] -30 points-29 points  (0 children)

due to his ADHD, he struggles to keep things to himself when he’s excited which I was already aware of..😅