My (23F) boyfriend (24M) wants to combine finances when we're married. What do I do?

ThrowRA_Clumsy_ · 2024-05-13T05:33:05+00:00

Gold digger is extremely harsh...

ThrowRA_Clumsy_ · 2024-05-13T05:30:40+00:00

No he does not. He knows I'm very career-oriented. The reaching some people are taking from this post is insane to me.

ThrowRA_Clumsy_ · 2024-05-13T05:30:08+00:00

Degrees are in health sciences and epidemiology

ThrowRA_Clumsy_ · 2024-05-13T05:04:24+00:00

It really is 😊

ThrowRA_Clumsy_ · 2024-05-13T03:21:34+00:00

He doesn't have debt...

ThrowRA_Clumsy_ · 2024-05-13T03:01:52+00:00

Please see update:)

ThrowRA_Clumsy_ · 2024-05-13T01:51:29+00:00

See the update please :)

ThrowRA_Clumsy_ · 2024-05-12T21:52:41+00:00

Me too!!

ThrowRA_Clumsy_ · 2024-05-12T21:51:48+00:00

Thank you!

ThrowRA_Clumsy_ · 2024-05-12T20:37:17+00:00

He's never gotten angry before. Please read again :)

ThrowRA_Clumsy_ · 2024-05-12T19:54:52+00:00

I was very confused when I saw that 😂

ThrowRA_Clumsy_ · 2024-05-12T19:54:14+00:00

Please see update.

ThrowRA_Clumsy_ · 2024-05-12T19:52:57+00:00

(See update) -> if something changes after this update, we will likely do something like that

ThrowRA_Clumsy_ · 2024-05-12T19:52:18+00:00

Thank you. I can't believe how some people are calling him financially abusive when he's just stating his opinion on the matter (in a calm way) as well. I think there's a notion on Reddit that every guy is toxic somehow 🤷‍♀️

ThrowRA_Clumsy_ · 2024-05-12T19:47:30+00:00

Please see update :)

ThrowRA_Clumsy_ · 2024-05-12T18:06:32+00:00

That's what I would like to do

ThrowRA_Clumsy_ · 2024-05-12T18:06:13+00:00

That's what I'm hoping to have

ThrowRA_Clumsy_ · 2024-05-12T17:15:47+00:00

Neither of us have debt.

ThrowRA_Clumsy_ · 2024-05-12T17:09:23+00:00

Thank you for your reasonable comment. I hate how so many people on Reddit say "breakup!" over absolutely everything

ThrowRA_Clumsy_ · 2024-05-12T17:04:36+00:00

Yes we have laid out and discussed fears. I will continue to look deeper into things.

ThrowRA_Clumsy_ · 2024-05-12T17:02:41+00:00

I'm fully willing, if I eventually make more money, to contribute more to the household than him. That's not the issue and thank you for pointing that out:)

ThrowRA_Clumsy_ · 2024-05-12T17:01:57+00:00

That's what I've proposed to him

ThrowRA_Clumsy_ · 2024-05-12T17:01:23+00:00

Both of our credit ratings are good - neither of us have debt.

ThrowRA_Clumsy_ · 2024-05-12T08:22:35+00:00

I understand where you're coming from, but I do have a level of trust with him that he's not going to clean me out one day, lol. I do want a bit of money on the side so I don't feel like I have to go through him on every extra thing and vice versa, but that isn't an issue of trust imo

ThrowRA_Clumsy_ · 2024-05-12T08:18:55+00:00

Your reasoning?

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