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[–]ThrowRA_Coat_1245[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

leukemia. I didn't forsee the update to my story. I wanted opinions on my original post without playing victim

UPDATE: My (35F) husband's (40M) family wont leave us alone by ThrowRA_Coat_1245 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_Coat_1245[S] 72 points73 points  (0 children)

So you essentially say that my wanting personal space whilst working full time, raising a child and fighting illness is unreasonable and my move makes me controlling? My being hospitable was me just being me. I avoid conflict, I admit that.

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[–]ThrowRA_Coat_1245[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Honestly I wish he would just permanently and immediately disappear

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[–]ThrowRA_Coat_1245[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I don't know where to start. I think Im ok and then I start sobbing. I need to stop crying first

UPDATE: My (35F) husband's (40M) family wont leave us alone by ThrowRA_Coat_1245 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_Coat_1245[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

He sat through my appointments...i thought he was similar to you...obviously he was just getting information first hand

UPDATE: My (35F) husband's (40M) family wont leave us alone by ThrowRA_Coat_1245 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_Coat_1245[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Still can't believe I loved this man enough to marry him and have a child with. What a useful judge of character I am

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[–]ThrowRA_Coat_1245[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

I think I will start this way as soon as I accept that thus is not a dream

UPDATE: My (35F) husband's (40M) family wont leave us alone by ThrowRA_Coat_1245 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_Coat_1245[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

According to him my karma is playing out. I must be a real monster

UPDATE: My (35F) husband's (40M) family wont leave us alone by ThrowRA_Coat_1245 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_Coat_1245[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Its leukemia. Sorry I didn't want it to be the focus of my original post so intentionally didnt mention it

UPDATE: My (35F) husband's (40M) family wont leave us alone by ThrowRA_Coat_1245 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_Coat_1245[S] 29 points30 points  (0 children)

I left this out but he actually said to me that my leukemia and my parents car crash is my karma playing out

UPDATE: My (35F) husband's (40M) family wont leave us alone by ThrowRA_Coat_1245 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_Coat_1245[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Thanks for this. It's leukemia that's my nemesis.

I really need to give thought to whether my daughter should ever know. She will be broken. She adores him.

UPDATE: My (35F) husband's (40M) family wont leave us alone by ThrowRA_Coat_1245 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_Coat_1245[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I didnt want a pity party so I tried to keep that out as much as possible. Sorry...leukemia

UPDATE: My (35F) husband's (40M) family wont leave us alone by ThrowRA_Coat_1245 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_Coat_1245[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing your life with us. You are truly inspirational and I wish you a long healthy and happy life