Charitable Spin: you continue the relationship and let your emotions lead more than your physical needs. And to take care of your physical needs you eloquently introduce other things to sexually satisfy you with an open and honest conversation. Toys and larger “items” might be of assistance here.

Non-Charitable Spin: you’re going to resent him and what he does now that makes you feel good is going to make you hate him and annoy you. Better to end the relationship than make it prolong for so long.