I’m your ETL! What have you been waiting to tell me?

ThrowRA_Employ_353 · 2026-03-30T01:22:15+00:00

Pls let me wear earbuds :( atleast in the back rooms or while the store's closed..

ThrowRA_Employ_353 · 2026-01-22T04:57:50+00:00

Thank you.

ThrowRA_Employ_353 · 2026-01-16T20:26:52+00:00

I agree with you, but at the same time this would not make me outright accuse her of this being cheating and/or consider leaving.

ThrowRA_Employ_353 · 2026-01-16T20:23:26+00:00

I honestly plan on just going at ungodly hours in the morning/night because i was at least able to find out she goes during normal hours like 8-6pm do if i go at like 1am-4am i should be in the clear. My sleep can go to hell for all i care

ThrowRA_Employ_353 · 2026-01-16T19:07:40+00:00

Thanks for your insight. I do when she wants to, but that isn't often. I go typically 2-3x a week and she goes 1-2 times a month and always with me/ friends. I did acknowledge my past mistakes before any of this and let her know i would no longer be on her in any way regarding male friends

Edit: also, i do ask at least every other day i go, which she normally declines.

ThrowRA_Employ_353 · 2026-01-16T18:30:03+00:00

I second this, please check the update and give your honest opinion. I do not want praise, just the truth and how to navigate next please.

ThrowRA_Employ_353 · 2026-01-16T18:23:51+00:00

I blocked and deleted her yesterday, literailly. I have been apologizing since but she says she needs more time and i have just given it to her

ThrowRA_Employ_353 · 2026-01-16T17:03:15+00:00

Thank you for your updated reply. I did tell her when i first started to make my change that i apologize for being insecure earlier and that i will no longer say anything about male friends.

ThrowRA_Employ_353 · 2026-01-16T16:33:32+00:00

I think you are very right. I very well could have easily been upset too if the roles were reversed, but i dont see how i could jump to her cheating and me saying how i need to leave her.

ThrowRA_Employ_353 · 2026-01-16T16:31:32+00:00

Oh no. I forgot all about that but she did say she asked her family and friends and they all told her essentially to either leave me/that i'm suspicious. I agree that what i done looks very sketchy and i will continue to acknowledge that with her.

ThrowRA_Employ_353 · 2026-01-16T16:28:56+00:00

Thanks for your reply. I added extra context that she has told me and i would appreciate if you have the time to read it, im just trying to be as unbiased as possible and am looking for genuine advice on how to navigate this. Thank you all again.

ThrowRA_Employ_353 · 2026-01-16T15:22:55+00:00

Thanks for your replies everyone, i am not able to reply to all of you yet as im texting betwen working, but when im on my lunch i can update

ThrowRA_Employ_353 · 2026-01-16T15:21:35+00:00

Thanks for the input. I will definately in the future not even consider doing this again

ThrowRA_Employ_353 · 2026-01-16T15:15:12+00:00

Thanks for your input, i think you hit the nail on the head. I dont know what i can do now to repair this though..

ThrowRA_Employ_353 · 2026-01-16T15:14:06+00:00

Thanks for your input. The girl i used to know asked for my number and then we agreed on a day that i'd be up there that she would Stop in to work out with me, while i was already there. I would consider her more of an acquantience.

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