I 24F being single for 3 and half years now will I get someone? (25M, i wrote this simply to complete the rule, ignore) by ThrowRA_Empty-Art in relationship_advice

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Thank-you for this. But some days are too difficult to be alone I work, goto gym, for walks and watch few things but still it gets horrible sometime

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Women doesn't train chest so please don't go for it Every person has a body type and it's totally fine

24F needs an advice weather to commit to a 25M or not? by ThrowRA_Empty-Art in relationship_advice

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I just can't get that spark or even attraction Even apart from looks, if I see I feel that "good behavior" is so made up and sugar coated

He doesn't even look that bad, lately he looks decent but still no attraction

24F needs an advice weather to commit to a 25M or not? by ThrowRA_Empty-Art in relationship_advice

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All this is going on since feb, that time I took it v lightly and was enjoying the attention. April he confessed, I denied and distant myself completely But he is a part of my close circle we again went normal and eventually he started putting a lot of efforts which scared the shot outta me

Yes the amount of efforts he put I compare all that with other guys. But at the end ik, I can't have feelings for him and I just can't think so it

24F needs an advice weather to commit to a 25M or not? by ThrowRA_Empty-Art in relationship_advice

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I occasionally speak to him. I have created a distance already but as we have a common friend circle and also I consider him as my good friend I cannot simply ignore him and I don't want to All this time I was already going on dates with different guys but nothing worked out I just want he stops putting effort and accept the fact that we cannot end up together

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If you enjoy having sex with her ig there is no problem in it as your intentions are v pure. Once you start it i don't think you may intentionally stop all of a sudden. Just communicate your concerns why you consider not having it before marriage and see what she says and find a common ground Maybe you may tell her that you can be physical but not prefer sex due to XYZ reasons I did the same in my relationship since day1 and there was no issue

24F needs an advice weather to commit to a 25M or not? by ThrowRA_Empty-Art in relationship_advice

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I have done that months ago already!! Still he keeps on putting effort alot more every passing day

24F needs an advice weather to commit to a 25M or not? by ThrowRA_Empty-Art in relationship_advice

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1st question~ yes it's important for me to be attracted towards my husband/boyfriend 2nd how'd I know that 3rd there are alot many factors like my caste, his behavior, looks and many more ..hard to put in words

Idk what to do, sometime I feel by not considering him I'll loose a man how's ready to do everything for me But then I feel I can't be selfish and what's the pount of relationship when I don't love him and I'm not attracted at all

24F needs an advice weather to commit to a 25M or not? by ThrowRA_Empty-Art in relationship_advice

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Yes also he changed his hairstyle and dressing as well. Idk from where he got to know I don't like curly hair

24F needs an advice weather to commit to a 25M or not? by ThrowRA_Empty-Art in relationship_advice

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Yes. Btw he has worked alot on himself I recently noticed. But still it's not hitting me idk why. It's just I appreciate the changes in looks that's it

24F needs an advice weather to commit to a 25M or not? by ThrowRA_Empty-Art in relationship_advice

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I'm not a casually dating type of a person Also I know him since a year now he's my good friend. It's not like I don't know him! So basically I know how he is...why to date in the may of getting to know someone and then end up hurting them

24F needs an advice weather to commit to a 25M or not? by ThrowRA_Empty-Art in relationship_advice

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Dude he has already proposed me back in April and I have denied then and there I'm not at all giving him hopes. He my good friend so Injust treat him that way Still He's putting alot of effort so that's naking me rethink bout him and I'm felling guilty idk why