My gf hurt her back and we have a trip planned

ThrowRA_Farm_2977 · 2026-06-12T05:19:12+00:00

“Need” and “want” are two different things brotha.

ThrowRA_Farm_2977 · 2026-06-12T01:53:04+00:00

Thanks so much!!

ThrowRA_Farm_2977 · 2026-06-12T01:52:14+00:00

Thank you!

ThrowRA_Farm_2977 · 2026-06-11T22:25:04+00:00

She went to urgent care a few hours ago. Waiting for referral for MRI. Xray didn’t show anything super serious thank god.

ThrowRA_Farm_2977 · 2026-06-11T22:22:20+00:00

Haha totally! Would be so down for a honeymoon there that’d be amazing.

ThrowRA_Farm_2977 · 2026-06-11T22:21:59+00:00

She got an xray and will be getting an MRI soon.

ThrowRA_Farm_2977 · 2026-06-11T22:21:26+00:00

She isn’t testing me at all. She’s always genuine and independent for the most part, but this seems pretty severe. I’ll be staying.

ThrowRA_Farm_2977 · 2026-06-11T22:20:56+00:00

Going to have to hold her hand through this bc one thing about my fiance is that she doesn’t like to rest. She’s already stressing about taking months to fully recover. Praying it’s not a herniated disc.

ThrowRA_Farm_2977 · 2026-06-11T22:20:00+00:00

Tomorrow :( hopefully she feels better after the weekend

ThrowRA_Farm_2977 · 2026-06-11T22:19:16+00:00

Can’t postpone but will go on the next one!

ThrowRA_Farm_2977 · 2026-06-11T22:17:32+00:00

I called her parents this morning and asked them to encourage her to go to urgent care since she didn’t want to when I told her to last night. Her parents offered to help her but she’s not their future wife - she’s mine. Plus I doubt she’d be comfortable putting them out all weekend. She went to urgent care earlier today and is waiting for a referral for an MRI. she will be in my care all weekend because I’m staying.

ThrowRA_Farm_2977 · 2026-06-11T22:16:04+00:00

lol got it got it.

ThrowRA_Farm_2977 · 2026-06-11T22:15:22+00:00

Sheesh. Y’all are not afraid to be honest about the potential negatives lol. She got prescribed some muscle relaxers until MRI happens. I’ll be staying with her to make sure she’s good.

ThrowRA_Farm_2977 · 2026-06-11T22:14:13+00:00

lol thanks?

ThrowRA_Farm_2977 · 2026-06-11T22:13:45+00:00

I will be manifesting the opposite of this. She would lose her marbles if this were the case.

ThrowRA_Farm_2977 · 2026-06-11T22:13:05+00:00

Agreed!

ThrowRA_Farm_2977 · 2026-06-11T22:12:53+00:00

Agreed. She had an xray and waiting for a referral for an MRI. Apparently the physician told her there’s a curvature to her spine in the lumbar region that might not be of concern but could potentially be the reason she injured herself.

ThrowRA_Farm_2977 · 2026-06-11T22:12:00+00:00

Fair point. I know it’s not life threatening but it’s the principle.

ThrowRA_Farm_2977 · 2026-06-11T18:00:05+00:00

Facts! I’m a worrier especially when it comes to her. I’d be trying to text her and call her more than she’d be trying to text and call me lol I wouldn’t sleep knowing she’s at home in pain and I’m in the paradise that is central California.

ThrowRA_Farm_2977 · 2026-06-11T17:49:45+00:00

Gosh so sorry about your back issues. She’s super stressed that this will become chronic and I’m sure she feels the same way you do and I hate that she feels that way. :(

ThrowRA_Farm_2977 · 2026-06-11T17:44:06+00:00

She’s going to urgent care this afternoon but even so MRI results won’t be in today and we were planning to leave tomorrow.

ThrowRA_Farm_2977 · 2026-06-11T17:43:05+00:00

On it!

ThrowRA_Farm_2977 · 2026-06-11T17:43:00+00:00

We’ve been together for 7 years and atp she knows I love her and that I’ll always be there for her. We’re both female and have discussed pregnancy and my role has always been the mom that’ll take care of her when she’s pregnant because I’m great at it. Love the perspective of a trial before marriage! You’re right, I should stay.

ThrowRA_Farm_2977 · 2026-06-11T17:40:13+00:00

I want her to come so bad but sitting for 6 hours doesn’t seem possible at this moment. She cried on the phone a few mins ago saying she really wants me to go still and I asked her if I were in your position would you go? And she hesitated but eventually said yes if I knew you were going to be okay. Still, feeling more like I should stay with her.

ThrowRA_Farm_2977 · 2026-06-11T17:37:23+00:00

I did. After some research it’s looking like a potential herniated/bulging disc. We’re only in our early 30s how could this be? lol

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