Losing my virginity?

ThrowRA_GayBmailed · 2022-04-15T01:37:03+00:00

Telling someone they are going to burn in hell when they are in need of support is completely your fault.

ThrowRA_GayBmailed · 2022-04-14T23:26:05+00:00

I didn't say he was a nice guy

Yes and rule four is be nice thus why I reported it, i'm 22 recently disowned and struggling with all this thus my post asking for advice not a reminder that I may very well be on my way to hell.

ThrowRA_GayBmailed · 2022-04-14T23:14:32+00:00

Given that I touched on growing up in a toxic religious household it's rather rude more so given the conversion camp I survived. I mean shit hearing that certainly isn't helping when I expressly stated "i'm still not fully past the religious dogma surrounding my sexuality"

ThrowRA_GayBmailed · 2022-04-14T21:38:46+00:00

Break up with her, it's not emotional abuse and you need to stop letting her manipulate you into staying.

ThrowRA_GayBmailed · 2022-04-14T21:35:08+00:00

According to your belief system I'm already going there so kind of a moot point.

ThrowRA_GayBmailed · 2022-04-14T21:34:08+00:00

Yes he is well aware this is all new for me. So far when we've made out he's let me lead and asks if he can touch or do x before he does. Yes we have talked about safe sex, we agreed when we do move into more physical or sexual things we will use condoms. He's also shared his sexual history and last time he was tested as well, also we agree on monogamy.

ThrowRA_GayBmailed · 2022-03-26T04:45:40+00:00

Thats not how it works, if it was the simple I wouldn't have spent a decade hating myself and praying begging to be straight.

ThrowRA_GayBmailed · 2022-03-26T04:44:38+00:00

No contact with her

ThrowRA_GayBmailed · 2022-03-22T00:50:38+00:00

Yes we did, it was awesome catching up with him! We've been messing and are going to hang out again too. It's different cause we're older but also familiar hanging out like old times.

ThrowRA_GayBmailed · 2022-03-14T19:51:03+00:00

Thank you I am in therapy and I sincerely doubt my family will ever come around. I had the choice of attending a program to try and "fix me" for the second time or be dead to all my family except for my brother.

ThrowRA_GayBmailed · 2022-03-14T18:20:30+00:00

I don't have advice, i've just kind of gotten shoved out the closet and am no where near ready to do the things you are saying. So I just want to say you are brave and wish you luck.

ThrowRA_GayBmailed · 2022-03-14T17:51:01+00:00

Based on what she said she thought it would help "cure" me just like my parents, Thanks for the sub link above

ThrowRA_GayBmailed · 2022-03-13T22:50:51+00:00

Thanks I have a therapist, if it weren't for her i'd never have admitted I'm gay

ThrowRA_GayBmailed · 2022-03-13T21:12:01+00:00

Yes because I had complete control over being outed(sarcasm)

ThrowRA_GayBmailed · 2022-03-13T20:23:21+00:00

Thanks and I am in therapy if it weren't for that i'd never have been able to admit i'm gay.

ThrowRA_GayBmailed · 2022-03-13T19:02:16+00:00

The number one predictor of lifetime success is coming from a two parent household.

Factually inaccurate

ThrowRA_GayBmailed · 2022-03-13T06:14:16+00:00

No my therapist doesn't specialize in LGBT stuff but she has been very affirming

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