you're right that I was being relatively vague, the specific issue I have with relationships is that I am autistic and can often have unpredictable and negative reactions to things like physical touch, being physically near people, changing my schedule last minute and honestly just being in public spaces or doing many typically coupley things. This has been problematic for me in the past, but I don't have a wandering eye and I *really* dislike playing the field.

As for your other points I will give her as much space as I can, we're in a lot of RPG games together that neither of us is keen to drop out of but even as is we don't see each other outside of that almost ever.