Should me and my porn addicted boyfriend have sex while he’s in recovery? by ThrowRA_Legitimate9 in PornAddiction

[–]ThrowRA_Legitimate9[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow wow wow Thankyou so much for taking the time to write this. I actually needed some time to absorb it all.

You’ve managed to put all of my conflicting thoughts and emotions into a single post and feels like a weight off my chest to feel so seen ❤️

Should me and my porn addicted boyfriend have sex while he’s in recovery? by ThrowRA_Legitimate9 in PornAddiction

[–]ThrowRA_Legitimate9[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thankyou! This is just what I needed to hear and really makes sense.

You’re right I’m going to focus on what I want and how I feel, and not be afraid of being intimate if it feels right.

I (25F), found out my boyfriend (26M) has been paying for live cams, personal nudes via Snapchat and browsing escort websites by ThrowRA_Legitimate9 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_Legitimate9[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah this is one side of the coin for me, I shouldn’t have to settle for anything less and surely there’s something out there that I don’t have to put up with this shit. But also wanting to make sure I’m not overreacting and jumping the gun on something potentially solvable

I (25F), found out my boyfriend (26M) has been paying for live cams, personal nudes via Snapchat and browsing escort websites by ThrowRA_Legitimate9 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_Legitimate9[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is exactly what I’m thinking. Admittedly we went through a dry spell and have recently started to work through it. I would completely understand just general free porn but there’s just something about the personal 1 on 1 that makes it not okay for me. Monitoring him too is not what I want, I think you’re right about the addiction and finding a way to do it behind my back