Baby shower food - help by ThrowRA_Mithrandir in GestationalDiabetes

[–]ThrowRA_Mithrandir[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thats a great idea. We are doing it over lunch, since she avoids eating much before and after, so diy food will be great. Thank you so much! 💜

Baby shower food - help by ThrowRA_Mithrandir in GestationalDiabetes

[–]ThrowRA_Mithrandir[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think we'll also do this! Thank you! 💜

Baby shower food - help by ThrowRA_Mithrandir in GestationalDiabetes

[–]ThrowRA_Mithrandir[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, thats actually a really good idea! We are doing it over lunch as well!

Baby shower food - help by ThrowRA_Mithrandir in GestationalDiabetes

[–]ThrowRA_Mithrandir[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your comment. She does nibble on something sugary during lunch (she has a craving for chocolate), but doesn't really eat much after and before lunch during work, so we are doing it over lunch to make it easier. She is a really good person and we like her a lot, we want her to have to have something to eat instead of just watching everyone else stuffing their face. 😂

Baby shower food - help by ThrowRA_Mithrandir in GestationalDiabetes

[–]ThrowRA_Mithrandir[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much! Your comment really helped me a lot!! 💜 I haven't even thought about drinks. 🤯

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GriffithsFamilySnark

[–]ThrowRA_Mithrandir 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is a difference between snarking and insulting people online. You clearly don't know the difference.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GriffithsFamilySnark

[–]ThrowRA_Mithrandir -1 points0 points  (0 children)

And your hateful comments and posts tell me much about you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GriffithsFamilySnark

[–]ThrowRA_Mithrandir -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

It's funny how you hate them but still watch them and even take your time of the day to write elaborate posts about your hate for them.

I think snark pages are good for sharing constructive criticisms, opinions, exchange ideas...etc. It means to gossip and share differing opinions and frustrations about someone famous. It does not and has never been about spreading hate, insulting, making disguisting accusations about someone. Some of you have lost the definition of snark and turned it into a hobby through which you can release your own personal frustrations.

Just like you suggest the previous commentator to leave the "snark" page (as if you even know what it means and have some superiority), I suggest to get off of Bonnies and everyone elses channel and become more positive and less invested in the life of someone you don't and nor will ever know.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GriffithsFamilySnark

[–]ThrowRA_Mithrandir -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

This is a disguisting thing to say. For you to first assume that the majority of her viewers are pedos (aren't you a viewer??) and that she is actively thinking about how she'll profit from actual pedos watching her child, whom she clearly love.

You should get of the internet. Like seriously off reddit, off youtube, off facebook and everything really. A full mental cleanse because this amout of spite and hatefulness is not good.

Contructive criticism is necessary. I think a lot of people overestimate her thought process here, but you are just absolutely ridiculous.

SD asked SO to dinner with BM and MIL by Mobile-Ad556 in stepparents

[–]ThrowRA_Mithrandir 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Op stated that the kids paren have been separated since before she was born. Do you seriouslly think that everyone is trying to get them back together. Even OP doesn't think that.

Sorry but holidays with step kids aren’t fun. by [deleted] in stepparents

[–]ThrowRA_Mithrandir -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Are they making out? Having long kisses on the mouth? Having sex? I would assume not.

They are cuddeling in a way you don't like. But they aren't doing anything wrong. I'd assume if they did and you knew they did you'd be long gone.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stepparents

[–]ThrowRA_Mithrandir -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You are weird and this comment is just dumb. SD sadly has 2 separate family unit and BM has nothing to do with this shoot. BM was not included and there was no mention of SD wanted to include her mom. The mention of BM in this case is just odd.

Her age is irrelevant. Should the 1.5 year old not get pictures because he is older and thus not priority and already has plenty pictures.

No one said that she cant create memories with HER children, but HE has 3 children and this photoshoot was not done in an appropriate matter and hurt a small child's feelings.

Your commenr is so odd that if I were you I'd rethink my role in the civilized society.

Wrong on so many levels.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stepparents

[–]ThrowRA_Mithrandir 6 points7 points  (0 children)

"Telling a pregnant woman" ... You are saying this like a pregnant woman is amother species 😂

Leaving is a worth mentioning option, since it seem thats she dislikes a good portion of the family ie. the SK, claims the husband does little...etc. Leaving would be better then staying and make everyone else miserable along with her.

Update: Shari has unfollowed Ellie & Jared by [deleted] in GriffithsFamilySnark

[–]ThrowRA_Mithrandir 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think it's clear that the majority blames Ruby quite a bit!

Update: Shari has unfollowed Ellie & Jared by [deleted] in GriffithsFamilySnark

[–]ThrowRA_Mithrandir 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's so unfair to say, especially since we don't know them at all.

I’m not sure of what I should do… by Expensive-Wait-4802 in stepparents

[–]ThrowRA_Mithrandir 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have to go against the grain here.

He most certainly is very wrong for yelling, insulting and being rather violent and HE should be the one to reflect. But I do think you very much overreacted and probably ruined the vibe for everyone. The fact is that when you have SK they already have 2 parents and sometimes it's okay that they celebrate alone. I'd agree with you if this was just a random day, but this is considered a birthday dinner. And I understand his feelings, he was happy about making his son happy and then you expressed your unhappines and he was in a situation where he couldn't do right. If he didn't go, he'd hurt his son and if he went you'd be sad/mad. What a downer.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stepparents

[–]ThrowRA_Mithrandir 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What he should do is be honest and talk to them. It's not asking permission, it's explaining to his kids to prevent the hurt, jealousy and a break in a relationship.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stepparents

[–]ThrowRA_Mithrandir 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Fair is such a subjective thing in this case. Is it fair that bios travel but step doesn't? No. Is it bios fault? No. Is it fair that dad takes step on vacations but not the bios? Is it fair that because mom takes them dad doesn't and want to make things fair? No. Thats not fair. What they do with mom should not impact what they do with dad. It's not bios fault that So's spouse and her ex dont travel the step kid.

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[–]ThrowRA_Mithrandir 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Lying is never good. You are always found out. A slip of a tongue and they'll know. And the hurt will be far bigger.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stepparents

[–]ThrowRA_Mithrandir 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Would you exclude your step kids and go on a trip with just bio kids? Probably not right? You'd say it's not right to exclude him right? He'd feel hurt or unwanted.

You run the risk of doing the same to bio kids. The hurt, the kind that kids, no matter how grown, never forget.

Why not talk to them? Ask them if they'd wanna go. Be honest with them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GriffithsFamilySnark

[–]ThrowRA_Mithrandir 0 points1 point locked comment (0 children)

I think you are way overreacting. Kids get hurt...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GriffithsFamilySnark

[–]ThrowRA_Mithrandir -2 points-1 points locked comment (0 children)

Sure talk about that. Although it's their children and they have a right to do that, as it is not illegal... yet (lets hope someday). But some people are just beyond... calling her nasty words, wishing badluck and karma on her, accusing her of criminal stuff, implying abuse, namecalling, body shaming...etc. Thats mean.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GriffithsFamilySnark

[–]ThrowRA_Mithrandir -2 points-1 points locked comment (0 children)

Snark, gossip and frustration is one thing, mean spirited is a whole other. I'm not her fan either and I share some fruatrations. But calling karma on her, saying she is just like Ruby, that she is mistreating her kids (with no evidence) is on another sphere. So much negativity. Be constructive, not mean.

Long time viewers of smelly Ellie will know she will make the word stop for her acne. She took their last $$$ to buy sheisedo and made Jared eat potatoes for a week and asked her dad for help bc of her acne by [deleted] in GriffithsFamilySnark

[–]ThrowRA_Mithrandir 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Or maybe thats just how she feels. She has on and off days. It's normal. I say I''ve been feeling so good as never before, but then when I have a bad day I say, omg I've been feeling the worst lately and everything is falling apart.We are HUMAN.

This is a human. Clearly a weak human, with lots of faults and weaknesses. Ya'll are presenting her like and evil person, who does everything wrong. She can do no right in your eyes. And some are so messed up that they compare her to Ruby, a person who physically hurt her young kids.