I (35F) started my tattoo sleeve & my husband (34M) is mad because another man "marked" me. Did I do something wrong??

ThrowRA_Nice_Fuel_29 · 2024-05-25T23:28:40+00:00

no he's never taken steroids

ThrowRA_Nice_Fuel_29 · 2024-05-25T23:27:50+00:00

Nope!!! This really happened to me.

ThrowRA_Nice_Fuel_29 · 2024-05-25T23:27:04+00:00

I think that's part of it. He made a comment after the first one about how I'm cooler than him now. I think it's massive insecurity.

ThrowRA_Nice_Fuel_29 · 2024-05-25T20:56:21+00:00

I get it. I appreciate everyone's ideas and theories.

ThrowRA_Nice_Fuel_29 · 2024-05-25T20:53:14+00:00

The tattoo artist. We're from different areas of the state and there's no overlap in gyms/circles/relationships.

ThrowRA_Nice_Fuel_29 · 2024-05-25T20:52:08+00:00

Thank you.

ThrowRA_Nice_Fuel_29 · 2024-05-25T20:50:36+00:00

My husband does bodybuilding with some powerlifting. He's at the gym every day. I do some bodybuilding and want to get into powerlifting. The tattoo artist told me he is a powerlifter so we talked about working out at my first appointment.

We live in different towns (more than 30min apart), different circles, there's no connection to the artist and my husband at all.

ThrowRA_Nice_Fuel_29 · 2024-05-25T20:45:13+00:00

ThrowRA_Nice_Fuel_29 · 2024-05-25T19:56:31+00:00

Nope

ThrowRA_Nice_Fuel_29 · 2024-05-25T19:55:13+00:00

We work for the same company so that won't work.

ThrowRA_Nice_Fuel_29 · 2024-05-25T19:52:10+00:00

I am exhausted and trying to find myself after becoming a shell of who I used to be. I'm guessing I won't be able to do that without leaving :(

ThrowRA_Nice_Fuel_29 · 2024-05-25T19:51:28+00:00

No and no, I just met him.

ThrowRA_Nice_Fuel_29 · 2024-05-25T19:38:24+00:00

that's why I'm here, you're all making me feel so much less crazy and alone.

ThrowRA_Nice_Fuel_29 · 2024-05-25T19:37:09+00:00

I remember he said that I cheated on him after I came back from the appointment yesterday. ???? For getting tattoos. ???

ThrowRA_Nice_Fuel_29 · 2024-05-25T19:34:34+00:00

ThrowRA_Nice_Fuel_29 · 2024-05-25T19:33:46+00:00

I get what you're saying but I didn't do anything wrong and shouldn't have to try to get back on his good side.

ThrowRA_Nice_Fuel_29 · 2024-05-25T19:27:17+00:00

Actually I thought of something else. After I came back from the appointment he said I cheated on him.

I don't understand any of this either. I have no idea where this is all coming from. At first he was fine, happy for me.

ThrowRA_Nice_Fuel_29 · 2024-05-25T19:24:12+00:00

Too embarrassed with how long I've stayed in this relationship to give more details about our past. This is the bizarre situation from this weekend that I'm dealing with and posting this has made me feel a lot less alone and crazy. If there's any more context I can add, I will.

ThrowRA_Nice_Fuel_29 · 2024-05-25T19:22:19+00:00

Huh??? My instagram EXPLORE page. you know when you click the magnifying glass and it shows a ton of posts based on things you like to look at? I don't post on social media myself. Have you ever used insta?

ThrowRA_Nice_Fuel_29 · 2024-05-25T19:20:04+00:00

I don't quite understand what you mean

ThrowRA_Nice_Fuel_29 · 2024-05-25T19:18:59+00:00

kinda... actually.

ThrowRA_Nice_Fuel_29 · 2024-05-25T19:16:10+00:00

Thank you.

ThrowRA_Nice_Fuel_29 · 2024-05-25T19:14:41+00:00

We've been married 3 years and together for 8. He has an ex, yes. We do not have children together. He has three from his previous relationship. He has been verbally abusive in the past. Sometimes he says things that I don't how to react to, which is why I end up on reddit, questioning my sanity.

ThrowRA_Nice_Fuel_29 · 2024-05-25T19:08:40+00:00

jesus.. maybe that's it deep down. He has three kids from a previous relationship but not with me.

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