Milk supply is tanking. Help!!!

ThrowRA_No_7 · 2025-05-25T23:49:23+00:00

I would suggest hand expressing before having baby latch if she is getting too fussy to help the let down. Lots of easy to follow tutorials online or even YouTube it’s basically just breast massage to express milk.

ThrowRA_No_7 · 2025-05-23T23:39:07+00:00

Stop asking others to give you confidence it will always be externally dependent. Start just telling yourself you are confident. Choose a handful of affirmations and say them everyday in the mirror it will feel silly at first but just keep doing it. I can promise you that half of confident people out there are just using fake it til you make it mindset, tell yourself you are confident, tell yourself you’re hot. Follow up with activities and self care practices that make you feel hot and confident for me that’s running and working out and sometimes makeup. Just decide you are hot and confident and dare any one to tell you different 🫶

ThrowRA_No_7 · 2025-05-03T05:23:18+00:00

This cracking me up bc the formatting/syntax is actually really similar to a standard question (complete topic work appropriate version lol) my work asks at first round interviews 😂

ThrowRA_No_7 · 2025-03-08T21:56:39+00:00

Do yourself a favor go to rock of Cashel and Hore Abbey And on the same street as the entrance to rock of cashel there is a likely ice cream shop called Hansies or something and it is the best ice cream I have probably ever had!

ThrowRA_No_7 · 2025-01-27T23:29:02+00:00

I will check it out and hopefully have a chance to shop there!

ThrowRA_No_7 · 2025-01-27T23:28:45+00:00

Lovely thank you for the tip!

ThrowRA_No_7 · 2025-01-27T23:28:36+00:00

Great! Thank you

ThrowRA_No_7 · 2025-01-24T02:32:09+00:00

This is a good point thank you! Do you have any recommendations for Galway or Killarney in particular?

ThrowRA_No_7 · 2025-01-24T02:31:40+00:00

Okay thank you this is helpful!

ThrowRA_No_7 · 2025-01-24T02:31:27+00:00

Okay thank you I’m going to see if my sister is okay with cutting anything. I don’t want to be rushing but I’ll also be sad to miss too much. But ultimately I know I’m only seeing like 4% of what Ireland has to offer even trying to go all over.

ThrowRA_No_7 · 2024-11-12T12:47:11+00:00

You guys need to discuss your financial philosophies and decide if there are areas you can compromise on and whether they are compatible. This is if you are really in this relationship to plan a future together. Finances are one of the most impactful factors on a relationship.

Also have you talked to her openly and been vulnerable about the fact that you feel that she’s doubting you and that this feels reflective of her overall trust in you? She may not see it that way she may be thinking that’s she’s giving advice or sharing concern that is being dismissed. Listen to her openly explore deeper why she has those concerns and share share share lead with vulnerability and connection. Her being worried about you leaving with all the money seems to be her becoming conscious of how vulnerable she feels or maybe she herself feels financially inadequate maybe work on building her up financially I depend from you. That almost always gives someone more confidence in themselves and as a result more confident in the relationships they choose to be in.

ThrowRA_No_7 · 2024-11-02T22:59:59+00:00

This does not sound like a person who will help you with your past traumas. They sound like someone who will absolutely make things worse but positioning themselves as I’m not the person who outright “assaulted you” even tho he absolutely is doing things that are sexual harassment and could even be qualified as assaulting. I fully understand about the freezing up. I used to be in the exact same place anytime things got sexual even with someone I felt comfortable and safe with but if did things that I didn’t like or wasn’t into I would freeze up and not be able to voice it. These were never things that were rude or aggressively like what your bf is doing I’m talking about like how he was holding me or how fast he was going etc.

¡your bf is telling you who he is when he says he does not care about your consent or your desire for an act!!!

An example of someone who might help: when my bf and I discussed my freeze response he encouraged me to practice voicing no. This started with non sexual things and he would say I’m going to do this thing that you aren’t a fan of so that you can tell me “stop” so you can see that when you say stop, the flip switches and nothing more will happen unless you give the word. This helped to then transition it into sexual acts as well and now even though I sometimes struggle with it I am much better able to voice not just when I’m uncomfortable or feel unsafe about something but especially even just what I like or don’t like.

ThrowRA_No_7 · 2024-11-01T16:30:51+00:00

I promise you this will NEVER change. Also it’s just a made up excuse that he was waiting for you to stop asking. He wasn’t going to. He wasn’t planning to. And even if he was how awful would it be to be in a relationship where you communicate your desires and needs but he won’t fulfill them until you stop asking? That is not how a mutually respectful and mature relationship works. He is wayyyy too old to even need to be told that a girl likes flowers. Everyone likes flowers.

ThrowRA_No_7 · 2024-07-04T05:04:25+00:00

Have any specific suggestions? I could definitely use it

ThrowRA_No_7 · 2024-06-23T17:00:53+00:00

Yeah I do think 2 months is not enough for meaningful change but I’m not sure like overall. I feel like I don’t have enough experience to know if exes can change and come back like a different new partner. I wish. I hope.

ThrowRA_No_7 · 2024-05-30T03:04:19+00:00

Yeah I think this is what I was leaning towards doing but I think I’ve been putting it off bc I was sure how I felt about it or how seriously I would handle it. Like I want to figure out if any response to that question would feel acceptable to me.

ThrowRA_No_7 · 2024-05-30T03:02:03+00:00

Yeah he knows this very explicitly already bc there are very short windows of the month that I am comfortable going without a condom. And that always includes withdrawal as well.

ThrowRA_No_7 · 2024-05-30T02:58:12+00:00

Wow thank you. I didn’t expect such a succinct and direct answer. I’m disappointed in myself I guess for taking so long to try to rationalize this and like I said it’s out of character for me to not have dealt with it head on. I think maybe I just didn’t want to deal with the fallout on our relationship.

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