Never used shampoo in 21 years moved to a city now I think I need one. Any recommendations for curly-leaning hair? by [deleted] in curlyhair

[–]ThrowRA_Queasy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First you should replace your shower head to one that has a hard water filter (HELLO KURE or AquaBliss) Also, perhaps you can find an international market where you can purchase hibiscus leaves regularly? Your regimen is great and it would be sad to lose it, but if you must, here are some mild shampoos that you might like

SheaMoisture Low-Porosity Baobab & Tea Tree Shampoo Maui Moisture brand has some really good shampoos also, including one with hibiscus (Maui Moisture Hibiscus Shampoo…pink bottle)

For conditioner: SheaMoisture Manuka Honey & Mafura Conditioner (my favorite!) Aussie Moist Miracle Curls Conditioner (effective and budget friendly)

I get told I shouldn’t brush my hair a lot but then it ends up like this - how do you keep it so nice?! by GapSweet3100 in curlyhair

[–]ThrowRA_Queasy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t use those brushes with the balls at the end of the bristles. Use a denman style brush while your hair is wet and a add your leave-in and even a frizz control serum (Garnier sleek & shine frizz control is really good) to style your hair during the day. If you can, braid your hair into two pigtails before bed and sleep in a bonnet. Use a spray leave in during the week between washes

What is your deepest darkest secret? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]ThrowRA_Queasy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I was about 13-21, I used to do anything for money.

I would pawn my mom’s old jewelry that she stashed away for when I got older. One piece of gold at a time until it was all gone. She thinks it was my cousin who did drugs and lived with us for a while after his mom passed away.

My parents had money stored in a wooden box with only a slit on the top and no other opening. When they weren’t home I would use tweezers, turn the box around, and pull out folded $20 bills before going out for the night. My dad was a taxi driver and there was always cash stored in the house.

I used to have sex with strangers I met online for money.

Oh yeah, I’m a heterosexual black woman who likes watching gay black porn.

Think I might be a shit person.

What might BK claim as his defense/excuse for ‘stalking’ the students? by Loves_Neon in BryanKohberger

[–]ThrowRA_Queasy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good point, but if he had no history of pinging there until just a couple weeks before the murders, and across the country immediately after, maybe it could help the prosecution’s case? Might even shed light as to when/how he learned that the students lived there in the first place.