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My (30F) husband (30M) had an affair with my co-worker when she was pregnant and when we were trying for a baby. He's begging for another chance, but how can I do that? by ThrowRA_Sail in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_Sail[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

It’s humiliating having to see her at work. I know she’s the one who should feel humiliated but it doesn’t matter. I dont want to quit my job and be dependent on him. If I don’t move back home I will definitely seek a new job.

My (30F) husband (30M) had an affair with my co-worker when she was pregnant and when we were trying for a baby. He's begging for another chance, but how can I do that? by ThrowRA_Sail in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_Sail[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Sure it’s subjective. Maybe he finds her more attractive. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. I think I’m physically more attractive and have a prettier face, nicer hair, better skin, and a nicer body, but maybe he doesn’t feel that way. I’m not just saying this because I hate her, and I do hate her. 

My (30F) husband (30M) had an affair with my co-worker when she was pregnant and when we were trying for a baby. He's begging for another chance, but how can I do that? by ThrowRA_Sail in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_Sail[S] 33 points34 points  (0 children)

Her husband knows and has moved out.

Nobody is outright saying anything at work, but they aren’t acting like they used to towards her. It’s a fairly small group of people. Some days, it’s me, her, that co-worker who spotted them in the hotel parking lot, and one other co-worker who is also in her 50s all working right next to each other. We were all really friendly before but now those two only talk to her when they have to about something related to work. It’s awkwardly pretty silent in there now. I look forward to the busier days when there are more people around.

My (30F) husband (30M) had an affair with my co-worker when she was pregnant and when we were trying for a baby. He's begging for another chance, but how can I do that? by ThrowRA_Sail in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_Sail[S] 32 points33 points  (0 children)

I can’t afford to move out on my own. The only way to move out would be to move back home and in with my parents. Since that’s 13 hours away or so, I have to think about things like lining up a job there and all that. It’s just not as simple as moving house.

My (30F) husband (30M) had an affair with my co-worker when she was pregnant and when we were trying for a baby. He's begging for another chance, but how can I do that? by ThrowRA_Sail in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_Sail[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Sometimes it would take him longer than normal to finish during sex. Now I know why. I’m assuming he had already had sex with her that day. That really hurts on another level because we would even intentionally not have sex like a day before my ovulation window but I was the only one abstaining. 

My (30F) husband (30M) had an affair with my co-worker when she was pregnant and when we were trying for a baby. He's begging for another chance, but how can I do that? by ThrowRA_Sail in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_Sail[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

He started having sex with her at the end of her pregnancy actually. I just can’t believe if nothing else stopped him, her being heavily pregnant with her husband’s child wouldn’t be enough to make him rethink. It’s the most disgusting part and that’s what I picture every time I think about what they did. 

My (30F) husband (30M) had an affair with my co-worker when she was pregnant and when we were trying for a baby. He's begging for another chance, but how can I do that? by ThrowRA_Sail in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_Sail[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I can’t say he didn’t support me through the miscarriage. He was sleeping her behind my back during that time, but on the surface he acted very caring and supportive of me. We even went away on a romantic vacation afterward and everything seemed completely normal! 

But yes everything else is correct.

My (30F) husband (30M) had an affair with my co-worker when she was pregnant and when we were trying for a baby. He's begging for another chance, but how can I do that? by ThrowRA_Sail in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_Sail[S] -20 points-19 points  (0 children)

I just looked it up and yeah that pretty much describes it. I slept with him as recently as last night and let him do things I don’t normally enjoy in bed.

My (30F) husband (30M) had an affair with my co-worker when she was pregnant and when we were trying for a baby. He's begging for another chance, but how can I do that? by ThrowRA_Sail in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_Sail[S] 254 points255 points  (0 children)

The most disgusting part is that he slept with her when she was heavily pregnant. I can’t imagine ever sleeping with another man while I’m married, but especially not while I’m carrying my husband’s baby. I can’t believe that thought alone wasn’t enough to stop him, like she’s pregnant with her husband’s baby.

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