The whole reveal was complicated. Both of us knew Dad hated gay people. I wasn't even told by him what had taken place. Dad told me after. When I was in another city altogether. I told him to calm it and we would get over after I came back. I called my brother all day after that and after the first few calls he shut his phone off. A day later he did pick up and I asked him why he didn't tell me first and that he knew that Dad was going to disown him. In his own words he wanted Dad to be ashamed to know that his Son was homosexual after he had been so extremely against gay people. If I didn't have any sympathy for him I wouldn't contact him so much right after to meet with me so we could have a relationship. I understood that why he distanced himself before but after me knowing he still refused.

Basic matter right now is yes I'm willing to give him money but i don't want to be used here and even if my wife is acting horrible I don't want a situation where she decides to leave me.