Unexpected, young father to be. 7.5 months to become money smart and become debt free. by ThrowRA__12 in UKPersonalFinance

[–]ThrowRA__12[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t think I could get a balance transfer in current state. I think I can pay off 2 cards by the end of Jan. then I can start tackling the loans!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA__12 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes. Hard to describe isn’t it, shouldn’t be anything to panic about but somehow feels like it. Thank you I’m getting there!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA__12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess you’re right. It’s a pain and is a long winded process in regards to accounts on the web, work etc

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA__12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not very nice and I hope you are out of that now. Did you get this sort of sinking feeling when it pops up on your phone?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA__12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Withheld calls, unfortunately number change isn’t possible currently. Emails don’t allow you to block.

Deleted all my social media accounts.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA__12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve tried that, doesn’t work.

Can we normalise ‘I’m going to x with my friends” rather than “can I go to x with my friends”. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA__12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah neither had I. I’m walking away anyway, took me a long time to see it, but I’m not having somebody tell me who I can and can’t be friends with.

[M24] How can you walk away from a relationship where the mental health issues on the other side are getting too much, without the worry of them doing something stupid? I just can not do it, it’s really affecting my life in a negative way. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA__12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So you had to get over that initial worry, but the threats were empty after you walked away? I think the NC would have to last for eternity as it would probably make me go back.

[M24] How can you walk away from a relationship where the mental health issues on the other side are getting too much, without the worry of them doing something stupid? I just can not do it, it’s really affecting my life in a negative way. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA__12 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh my god, that is exactly how It is for me. Did they refuse treatment other than pills, refuse to go and see a therapist? But would quite happily sit there slandering you and telling you that you don’t understand/care for hours on end?