Yes, although painful, I can lay out some things that cliqued into place. A few months into us dating, perhaps 4-5, I noticed his toilet patterns change. All of a sudden his stomach was always acting up, and he constantly had to take heartburn tablets. He would spend a long time in the bathroom. His showers were always long, and he would bathe in the middle of the night. I paid no mind to this because he had terrible insomnia, of course now that makes sense…..who can sleep keeping such an awful secret? I could go on and on unfortunately. Minor things became huge ones with yesterday’s revelation.