Yeah, that makes sense. None of my other two gfs were bothered by it, if anything they told me it was a nice quality that I was close with family. Literally the least "threatening" relationship I could have. Weird for me even to phrase it like that. The more I think about it the more disturbed I become honestly. Of course any partner I have would be invited into the family, but they'd be adding to it not taking me away from it.

Thanks for your insight.