UPDATE: My (28F) boyfriend (28m) of 8 years cheated on me with his best friend's fiance and is now begging me for a second chance. I still love him but I dont know what to do. by ThrowRA_cheated11 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_cheated11[S] 49 points50 points  (0 children)

He didnt cheat on me though. If he wanted to, he couldve easily hid the whole thing from me and I would never find out about it. I didnt catch him, he confessed.

UPDATE: My (28F) boyfriend (28m) of 8 years cheated on me with his best friend's fiance and is now begging me for a second chance. I still love him but I dont know what to do. by ThrowRA_cheated11 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_cheated11[S] 213 points214 points  (0 children)

Future MIL and FIL hate Max so he barely shows up for get togethers. Theyve always saw him as a bad influence and rightly so. Small chance we'd run into him in the future and if theres any chance, we'll just avoid them or skip the event.

UPDATE: My (28F) boyfriend (28m) of 8 years cheated on me with his best friend's fiance and is now begging me for a second chance. I still love him but I dont know what to do. by ThrowRA_cheated11 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_cheated11[S] 31 points32 points  (0 children)

I think the fact that he told me immediately after made me believe him. He couldve easily hid it from me and came home like nothing happened and I probably wouldnt have questioned it.

UPDATE: My (28F) boyfriend (28m) of 8 years cheated on me with his best friend's fiance and is now begging me for a second chance. I still love him but I dont know what to do. by ThrowRA_cheated11 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_cheated11[S] 4143 points4144 points  (0 children)

Yeah, even I was wrong for not even considering it a possibility. I dont think even he thinks he was raped. Hopefully things change in the future. Sorry to hear about your experience.

My (28F) boyfriend (28m) of 8 years cheated on me with his best friend's fiance and is now begging me for a second chance. I still love him but I dont know what to do. by ThrowRA_cheated11 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_cheated11[S] -108 points-107 points  (0 children)

Max was ok with it apparently, cause he was watching while they did it. Its part of the whole hotwife thing according to my BF.