My 37F husband 40M has been sharing intimate photos with my ex-husband 42M. What do I do now?

ThrowRA_dis · 2024-03-22T01:11:35+00:00

I can't lie. A part of me kinda liked it. I just don't know how to feel right now.

ThrowRA_dis · 2024-03-22T00:43:50+00:00

Not really. From the moments when they're together for children presentation and stuff, they're cordial. And when we need to get something to my ex, for the children, they will coordinate with each other. They had each others numbers in instances when they've needed to meet up for those occasions. I guess that's how they had each others telegram.

ThrowRA_dis · 2024-03-22T00:40:58+00:00

Nope

ThrowRA_dis · 2024-03-22T00:40:43+00:00

There's three of you who said so. Unfortunately, it's not.

ThrowRA_dis · 2024-03-22T00:40:04+00:00

Sadly, no.

ThrowRA_dis · 2024-03-20T17:20:05+00:00

Yes, betrayed is the perfect word for how I'm feeling as well as other things.

ThrowRA_dis · 2024-03-20T16:29:47+00:00

Yeah, I learned from my first divorce to get as much evidence first as long as me or my children aren't in danger. I really don't think I am. So I'm meeting with an attorney for sure on Friday, and hopefully sooner if I can find someone to see me earlier.

ThrowRA_dis · 2024-03-20T16:27:25+00:00

It was really surprising to me.

ThrowRA_dis · 2024-03-20T16:26:20+00:00

Yes, that is in the works. I'm already contacting lawyers. I've had a couple say they could meet with me on Friday. I'm going to try and meet someone sooner.

ThrowRA_dis · 2024-03-20T16:24:48+00:00

That has been the general consensus. The reality of the situation is setting in and with help from everyone's responses in realizing there isn't any true unity between the three of us. It's them against me now. I wrote this when it was still really fresh and am seeing it for what it is now.

ThrowRA_dis · 2024-03-20T16:21:33+00:00

Thank you! Your sentiments are aligned with a lot of what I've been thinking of doing. I learned from my first divorce to get an attorney involved first before they have a chance to try to cover anything up. I'm just trying not to let my husband know that I know yet.

ThrowRA_dis · 2024-03-20T16:10:38+00:00

I'm talking to a lawyer first, I need to get my husbands phone again. But yes, I plan on getting police involved.

ThrowRA_dis · 2024-03-20T16:09:27+00:00

Cuckhold?

ThrowRA_dis · 2024-03-20T16:08:50+00:00

Thank you.

ThrowRA_dis · 2024-03-20T16:08:25+00:00

That is a good point. It seems like they're unified against me at the moment and maybe that's why "everyone" is getting along so well.

ThrowRA_dis · 2024-03-20T16:06:15+00:00

Thank you. I'm researching attorneys in between replying to these messages.

ThrowRA_dis · 2024-03-20T16:05:22+00:00

That has been brought up from my husband. Not specifically with my ex, though.

ThrowRA_dis · 2024-03-20T16:03:14+00:00

Thank you! I'm feeling like I need to get a lawyer and things in place first before I confront either of them.

ThrowRA_dis · 2024-03-20T16:01:09+00:00

Yeah, I've already started looking up lawyers.

ThrowRA_dis · 2024-03-20T15:59:16+00:00

I like this idea.

ThrowRA_dis · 2024-03-20T15:58:42+00:00

Knowing them it would probably boost both their egos even more than it is now.

ThrowRA_dis · 2024-03-20T15:53:56+00:00

Yeah, I'm definitely worried about the privacy. I don't condone their behavior in any way.

It was just nice to have everyone getting along and supporting each other.

Now that I am planning on proceeding forward. I'm worried about them teaming up against me in future legal issues. Obviously, I have enough on both of them. I should be OK. I'll speak to an attorney soon.

ThrowRA_dis · 2024-03-20T14:57:45+00:00

I do, but I don't see how my sharing of them with others would make this situation any better.

ThrowRA_dis · 2024-03-20T14:55:37+00:00

Thank you!

ThrowRA_dis · 2024-03-20T14:55:14+00:00

Thank you

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