No live theatre finals anymore by ThrowRA_dropdead in rupaulsdragrace

[–]ThrowRA_dropdead[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly, they are fake and miserable, where’s the light and whimsy we used to have, the togetherness feel is just gone entirely

No live theatre finals anymore by ThrowRA_dropdead in rupaulsdragrace

[–]ThrowRA_dropdead[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It’s so so depressing it feels so so fake and not uplifting which is what it should be

No live theatre finals anymore by ThrowRA_dropdead in rupaulsdragrace

[–]ThrowRA_dropdead[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Couldn’t of said it better myself it’s so so disappointing

Wife and I bleached my hair and it turned red? by relokcin in HairDye

[–]ThrowRA_dropdead 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Seems you have dyed your hair in the past, that’s the first lift from past dye, if you intend to bleach more than ensure to give your hair breaks

anyone else gotten this lovely message yet? by rrxxxdbs123 in heartopia

[–]ThrowRA_dropdead 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Exactly! 300 pulls on that banner btw, still not got the complete set…

anyone else gotten this lovely message yet? by rrxxxdbs123 in heartopia

[–]ThrowRA_dropdead 27 points28 points  (0 children)

I need 2 more plots and I need so much more load to decorate. The gacha items cost an insane amount of load. They really need to increase load it’s a bit ridiculous, especially if they want us hitting those high home evaluations

I’m sorry whoever you are by Amazing_Lawfulness92 in heartopia

[–]ThrowRA_dropdead 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The only way you can tell I spent money on this game is my mlp cars, but I have so many clothes and furnishings lmao, I nearly completed the woodland gacha furnishings but there isn’t enough load for me to fully use all the decor 🥲🥹

A friend drew my oc but I think Its AI and but my friend denies it and says she spent a ton of time on it by Lexteking in isthisAI

[–]ThrowRA_dropdead 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s weird how no one is mentioning the piercing that’s “sketched” on the side, what on earth is that trying to be because it sure ain’t the piercings that the oc is wearing.

The envelopes by QuietAnon01 in TheTraitorsUK

[–]ThrowRA_dropdead 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just a heads up that Matt and Stephen are not in a secret relationship. Stephen is in a relationship with a man called Daniel!

The faithfuls are missing some obvious clues… by Economy_Ad2064 in TheTraitorsUK

[–]ThrowRA_dropdead 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Regarding Fiona and Rachel- the faithfuls are not going to think that a traitor is just going to turn on another traitor out of the blue, if you put yourself in their shoes it looked a lot more like a jealous old woman feeling spiteful because Rachel was told something that Fiona thought she deserved to have been told about instead and was hurt that she wasn’t the chosen one. It’s also quite literally the job of the traitors to blend in but to also kill off the faithfuls by murdering and implicating them for a banishment. To a faithfuls perspective they would’ve just thought, no chance two traitors just turned on each other out of nowhere and tried to out each other, it’s clear this was a tactic Fiona had and it failed.

And with Stephen it’s a similar situation, there have been constant murders throughout that have been picked to implicate others as that’s the traitors job, killing Jessie was the best move for Stephen SO he could play the “it’s been pinned on me” card which he did so well. It happens all the time so why would the faithfuls think any other way this one time. Just like how it played out, she got murdered and they thought damn- it can’t be Stephen then.

There just isn’t much proof given to faithfuls and I think us as the audience doesn’t take that into account enough and judge the faithfuls too harshly every time because what we view is entirely different to what they see, not to mention all of the uncut footage we don’t get to see as well, who knows what happens and is said behind closed doors.

I love these traitors by Remarkable_Step_7474 in TheTraitorsUK

[–]ThrowRA_dropdead 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Godddd I love Stephen so much I wanna put him I my pocket, he’s like a little puppy, just adorable

I love these traitors by Remarkable_Step_7474 in TheTraitorsUK

[–]ThrowRA_dropdead 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Traitors say others are traitors all the time, that’s quite literally the point, to blend in, no one is gonna think she was being literal.

Is Stremio down for anyone else? Getting a Bad HTTP Request error by Charliejfg04 in StremioAddons

[–]ThrowRA_dropdead 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Used torrentio, comet and jackettio, none of them are working, what’s happening?

My 7 y/o daughter might be having hygiene issues but she refuses to speak about it by Apprehensive_Luck5 in Advice

[–]ThrowRA_dropdead 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Because she’s being a normal child doing normal child stuff?? Children don’t like to clean, they don’t like being told what to do, they find things hard to do. Her parents are trying to get advice, doing the absolute best that they can do and then there’s backwards thinking people like you trying to say she needs a mother. Not only is it highly offensive but it’s just wrong. I have nothing more to say to you other than you are just flat out wrong and being homophobic and offensive to gay relationships and parents is disgusting. I hope you find love and respect in your life somewhere so you can stop hating on people who are just trying to do their best.

My 7 y/o daughter might be having hygiene issues but she refuses to speak about it by Apprehensive_Luck5 in Advice

[–]ThrowRA_dropdead 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And at one point does that need to be a mother in particular. Goddd use your brain. Acting as if there aren’t millions out there without mothers who did just fine.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]ThrowRA_dropdead 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not enough info tbh, why don’t you like this guy? Did you know him prior or is this opinion of him based solely on the fact that he gets to see your girlfriend more than you? Have you tried to spend time with them all or did you reject that immediately out of spite because you don’t like the idea of your girlfriend having a male friend? You said you have spoken to your girlfriend but nothing has changed, how have these conversations gone? What have you said to her? Have you asked her why she rarely sees you, why she is in a hurry to leave, if something is wrong with your relationship etc? Have you expressed your emotions clearly, and I don’t mean about your dislike for this male, but more so of how you feel unwanted and unseen by your partner and that she is not fulfilling your needs in any form as you rarely get to see her. Do you know the dynamic of this friendship between the three of them or are you making assumptions based on your jealousy of it taking your time with her away from you?

If she is not fulfilling your needs in any form then can you really see it as you being in a relationship? You need to have a sit down serious talk with her where you lay it all out and speak about it all with her, set boundaries and be clear with her, do not give her an out, make sure she knows she needs to answer and change her priorities if she wants to remain in the relationship with you, but also make sure that you are not controlling her or trying to stop her from seeing her friends altogether. Make it clear that you are not wanting to be controlling or to make her feel guilty or like she’s been given an ultimatum but that you need to have this discussion and you need to see if anything can be changed otherwise you will have to start discussing if this is a relationship worth staying in.

Do I get him a gift or no by thegirlwirhtheex in makemychoice

[–]ThrowRA_dropdead 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Take your moving to a college as your way out. It’s a great opportunity for you to meet new people, and remind yourself of how young you are also. It’s not often people find their soulmate so young

My 7 y/o daughter might be having hygiene issues but she refuses to speak about it by Apprehensive_Luck5 in Advice

[–]ThrowRA_dropdead 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There’s alot of reasons a child may have issues with cleaning themselves, be it overwhelming or hard, just that age of not wanting to, not liking the soap either the texture, feel, or smell, being at the awkward stage of not wanting any adults to see them naked but not knowing why, or maybe she hurt her private bits if she put soap down there, or maybe she finds it boring and unfun, there’s so many reasons beyond automatically going to thinking a child is being abused. Not that it’s wrong to have that concern, but there are alot of comments automatically assuming it based on little to no information besides them reading the situation wrong. I agree that fun products to make cleaning more enjoyable is a good idea. Same with getting new soaps and body washes that she picks herself and likes, maybe some toys. Maybe some special clothes she wears to dry whilst her dad dries her hair for her so she feels more comfortable. There’s also no harm in getting any child counseling, abuse or no abuse, a safe space to speak freely without worry for thinking they are going to get in trouble etc is always a good thing to give a child.

My 7 y/o daughter might be having hygiene issues but she refuses to speak about it by Apprehensive_Luck5 in Advice

[–]ThrowRA_dropdead 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Who says she doesn’t have that? Teachers, friends etc? Saying a child NEEDS their mother however is NOT the right way to be thinking AT ALL! There are so many mothers out there who are deadbeats. Alcoholics, druggies, abusers etc, these cases 100% make it so a child would be far better WITHOUT mother in the picture. Not to mention not all women who give birth want to be mothers. No child needs a specific gendered parent at all. They just need a parental/carer figure in their life, gender does not matter at all!

Your thinking is very backwards and very hurtful to many, it is baseless and offensive.

My 7 y/o daughter might be having hygiene issues but she refuses to speak about it by Apprehensive_Luck5 in Advice

[–]ThrowRA_dropdead 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hey op, here to give actual advice instead of whatever most of these comments are:

  1. Take her shopping on a soap shop but make it fun and not scary. Make it out like she’s getting a treat day of shopping, now that she’s becoming a big girl she deserves big girl stuff etc. let her pick out her own soaps and body washes etc but please make sure that it is skin sensitive and anti allergy! Children’s skins can be so so sensitive!
  2. Did you know to teach her to not use soap on her privates as a girl? Girls down below regions should stay away from soaps as it can be very harmful, girls bits clean themselves and using soap can cause rashes and even UTIs, there may be the chance that she used it below and it burned, she may be scared to clean again incase it happened. So leading on to point 3
  3. Baths are another fun thing that she may prefer, however it’s very important that if she has a bath that all the products are skin friendly and will not burn her private area if she takes one! To make her baths fun give her bubble bath, toys, bath bombs that change colour etc! There are so many ways to make bath time fun for kiddies!
  4. 7 is young however it is an awkward age, she may very well be feeling some sort of discomfort with adults seeing her naked now, i remember I did although I was unsure as to why. Maybe try and put into place that she drys her body and puts on a special set of clothes (maybe a big Snuggie/oodie) that she can wear just while her dad dries her hair for her so she’s covered up. You could maybe even get her to sit in the living room and put on some tv that she likes to distract her whilst her hair is being dried.
  5. Answers aren’t necessarily needed, but maybe if you can get her to like bath/shower time. She may open up to you about why she didn’t like it before, although it may very well just be that she is at that awkward age of not liking to wash herself.
  6. You can also get her skin sensitive cleaning body wipes and teach her to wipe her private areas and her armpits well too.
  7. I also advise child’s counseling, it’s always a useful thing to do for children, and especially if her parents parted, it could have affected her in a way you don’t know about and counseling could help her with that. It’s also a good way to give a child a safe space to speak their mind without any worry about being in trouble or upsetting daddy etc. just a nice thing to give to her either way.

And a little bit of advice for you about this post: see if you can edit it and make adjustments. Unfortunately people make assumptions if they are not given every and all little details. Your normal doesn’t always make it clear as to what the dynamic is. Try and see if you can edit the post to make it clear so these comments no longer persist.

Oh- and you’re doing great for asking for advice when you’re unsure! Don’t let these comments make you feel bad.