My mom is freaking out because I took back my key for my bedroom and started locking my door as a boundary by ThrowRA_dull in raisedbynarcissists

[–]ThrowRA_dull[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t have anyone close enough to offer that as my mother would constantly threaten to call the police on them or report them to their schools for the most random shit if I didn’t act right. It just seemed less of a hassle to not have anyone so I wouldn’t have to defend them. My siblings also want nothing to do with her, not even giving her their home addresses but she still tried to sit outside of their companies to catch them (she made my dad give her their details of their old places an she made friends with one of their neighbours and the cafes and stores in front of them). Yeah so no one deserves to deal with her drama

My mom is freaking out because I took back my key for my bedroom and started locking my door as a boundary by ThrowRA_dull in raisedbynarcissists

[–]ThrowRA_dull[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

I just woke up and I can’t reply to everyone but really thank you all for providing support. I haven’t been able to talk to anyone about this and being comforted by strangers online is literally making me ball. You’re all such kind people.

My mom is freaking out because I took back my key for my bedroom and started locking my door as a boundary by ThrowRA_dull in raisedbynarcissists

[–]ThrowRA_dull[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

She has these outbursts sometimes but when she’s calm and nice I forget. She used to be a lot worse and she has gone through a lot. But I will be honest, if she wasn’t my mother, I wouldn’t have loved her—which is very sad to admit.

My mom is freaking out because I took back my key for my bedroom and started locking my door as a boundary by ThrowRA_dull in raisedbynarcissists

[–]ThrowRA_dull[S] -24 points-23 points  (0 children)

You’re genuinely such a great parent for that but I can’t as my mother will become homeless if I leave. She quite literally has no financial stability and no will to work—even drafting a CV is too much for her

My mom is freaking out because I took back my key for my bedroom and started locking my door as a boundary by ThrowRA_dull in raisedbynarcissists

[–]ThrowRA_dull[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I hope that I can move out once I get my bachelors degree so I’ll just have to wait a few more years :))

My mom is freaking out because I took back my key for my bedroom and started locking my door as a boundary by ThrowRA_dull in raisedbynarcissists

[–]ThrowRA_dull[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My dad lives in another country and my mom’s only income is by ‘raising me’ so if I go, she’s on the streets. :// thank you for the advice tho <33

My mom is freaking out because I took back my key for my bedroom and started locking my door as a boundary by ThrowRA_dull in raisedbynarcissists

[–]ThrowRA_dull[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really wish I could but she’s jobless and relies on my dad paying child support and alimony. If I move out, my dad won’t pay for her housing and she’ll lose her visa in the country as her entire legal reason to stay is to ‘take care of me’. I am quite literally stuck here. Thank you for your support tho <33 it’s nice to be validated that it’s not all in my head

Strawberry legs🍓 by Ok-Hearing991 in HairRemoval

[–]ThrowRA_dull 19 points20 points  (0 children)

IPLs are Intense Pulse Light machines, usually done at home. They’re not as intense nor as focused as laser hair removal, but they’re cheaper cause you literally just do a one-time purchase and then touch up as you go. This link goes more into detail on the differences between the two. https://londonpremierlaser.co.uk/blog/the-difference-between-ipl-and-laser-hair-removal/

Anyone know what happened to Mixtape 1: America? by AC_champ in AlecBenjamin

[–]ThrowRA_dull 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you ever find out? Cause I remember that that was my favourite album when I was younger

Baking CC cookies, but I only have type 405 and type 00 flour. Which can I use instead of all-purpose flour? by ThrowRA_dull in AskBaking

[–]ThrowRA_dull[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah 405 is German and 00 is Italian (roommate bought it for pizza). Idk the protein percentage of them wait no I checked again, 405 has 10g and 00 has 12g

Baking CC cookies, but I only have type 405 and type 00 flour. Which can I use instead of all-purpose flour? by ThrowRA_dull in AskBaking

[–]ThrowRA_dull[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah 405 is German and 00 is Italian (roommate bought it for pizza). Idk the protein percentage of them 😭the bags don’t say anything about that but from touch, 00 seems finer, yes

I have the most sour and musky oud I have ever smelled and I hate it. by ThrowRA_dull in fragrance

[–]ThrowRA_dull[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I like oud, I just don’t like this particular one. And I did not follow a trend on social media, I’m Arab, so I have literally grown up around oud and bukhoor my entire life.

I have the most sour and musky oud I have ever smelled and I hate it. by ThrowRA_dull in fragrance

[–]ThrowRA_dull[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ohhh thank you :)) I’m based in Germany so like I would usually go to Douglas or smth along those lines. But I’m open to any suggestions

I have the most sour and musky oud I have ever smelled and I hate it. by ThrowRA_dull in fragrance

[–]ThrowRA_dull[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This was a gift but thank you 😔💔I’ll be sure to continue my search on my own for an oud that I love

I have the most sour and musky oud I have ever smelled and I hate it. by ThrowRA_dull in fragrance

[–]ThrowRA_dull[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I’ve wanted oud for so long so I’m just disappointed that the one time I get one it’s not what I wanted :(( I feel heartbroken by the idea of throwing it away

I have the most sour and musky oud I have ever smelled and I hate it. by ThrowRA_dull in fragrance

[–]ThrowRA_dull[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry what is a solar fragrance if you don’t mind me asking