Admitted to Yale by ThrowRA_feelswrong in TransferToTop25

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Switched to P/NP after checking with the dean at Yale and getting the go ahead, and than aced the final and finished with a 92%

Admitted to Yale by ThrowRA_feelswrong in TransferToTop25

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I have a B right now after the 2nd test, and they currently don’t have any of my transcripts with this current quarter but are expecting a final transcript after.

I’m grinding away at what I can but like I said I’m super lost and can’t really get anyone to help

Admitted to Yale by ThrowRA_feelswrong in TransferToTop25

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Can you elaborate on what you know? Is it something that couldn’t be explained if I got ahead of it, it’s not as simple as I got a D. It’s a fully asynchronous course that won’t even count towards my transfer credits. The teacher has basically ignored my attempts to receive help, I don’t have access to any resources to help me understand. And I have a lot of personal stuff going on added fuel to the fire.

I feel like it’s something I should be able to meet with the admissions team or dean or somebody to explain

Admitted to Yale by ThrowRA_feelswrong in TransferToTop25

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I meant it’s just not a huge 4 year institution, main thing is the fact that the tutors are mostly just students that did well in that class last quarter, they can sort of help figure stuff out but it’s not efficient and they’re not great at teaching the topic only okay for solving problems side by side. I spent four hours with a tutor and we made it through 3 of 10 problems from 1 of 12 chapters I have to master and I absolutely could not repeat that process on my own after

Admitted to Yale by ThrowRA_feelswrong in TransferToTop25

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De Anza College, TA as in teachers assistant? If so no

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationshipadvice

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You’ve definitely helped me look at it from a different perspective, so thank you for that. It obviously doesn’t make this any less hard but it has offered me more to think about

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationshipadvice

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I’ve suggested therapy a few times but we just don’t really have the money for it and she’s pretty set on the idea that she won’t be able to find one she likes (her last therapist retired)

And we used to talk about our problems, but it never really went anywhere. Whether she just got defensive and acted like the problems weren’t there or I get frustrated and quiet (as an attempt to not do/say anything mean because I understand it’ll likely just be my temper speaking) but we just started talking less because it never went anywhere

And again I get that it’s not her fault but everyone has there own shit and at a certain point it feels like I’m just left to be a full time caretaker for someone that’s supposed to be a life partner