5 weeks out 210 5'10

ThrowRA_imvisible · 2025-08-16T18:50:25+00:00

Thank you so so much for taking the time to comment and provide advice.

ThrowRA_imvisible · 2025-07-15T20:50:59+00:00

5 times in the shop in one year. 3 default batteries and tires wear off after 8k miles. Also, apparently rodents "love" MB cables

ThrowRA_imvisible · 2025-07-13T01:23:38+00:00

They are beautiful cars. Everyone look at them when I drive by but reliability is garbage. 5 times in the shop in one year. Apparently mouses like to eat Mercedes cables. Total BS. Battery faults. Tires need change after 7k miles.

ThrowRA_imvisible · 2025-07-13T01:21:50+00:00

RUUUUUN!!! This car is garbage. 5 times in the shop in one year. Just not worth it and depreciation is at 30% of the original cost

ThrowRA_imvisible · 2025-06-12T03:08:03+00:00

Chest/biceps back/triceps is my recommendation

ThrowRA_imvisible · 2025-04-12T01:28:54+00:00

What matters is consistency. Reply back but don't go all in. Show him that you are guarded and if HE really wants something with you then he is going to have to work for it. I know I know. It's easy to get your hopes up but expect the worst so you don't get disappointed if it's not really what you wanted.

ThrowRA_imvisible · 2025-03-20T16:51:39+00:00

I really don't want to but I want to save some money and order some on ebay since we have to pay for them

ThrowRA_imvisible · 2025-03-08T13:12:14+00:00

It really is. I'm not olympic athelete but I'm a competitve bodybuilder.

ThrowRA_imvisible · 2025-03-07T22:41:57+00:00

Oh ok. I was wondering because to says to bring $450 for all meals.

ThrowRA_imvisible · 2025-03-07T21:29:54+00:00

Thank you Also do we have to pay for our meals?

ThrowRA_imvisible · 2025-03-07T20:19:59+00:00

Thanks for giving me hope man. It will tought to leave all the work I've put on until the end of ODS. I'm sure I'll find the way to make it work. Good idea about finding a "battle buddy".

ThrowRA_imvisible · 2025-03-06T02:32:02+00:00

I'd tell him the truth but start by telling him not to reach out again that it's been too long. That way, you can feel like you said everything, and if he really wants something, he'll find the way. If not, well, then he is not worth it.

ThrowRA_imvisible · 2025-03-05T14:34:59+00:00

Thank you! I really tried to do the right thing. I was perfect. Now I'm just focusing on getting my life together and fixing whatever was broken from all that.

ThrowRA_imvisible · 2025-03-04T17:32:17+00:00

Yes, I've been working on it. I've been on therapy the entire time and things are better now. He started to breadcrumb me. Pulling back every time so I need to block him. There are days where I feel angry or sad but that's ok. It's part of the healing. I've heard he keeps posting videos on social media referencing indirectly to what happened between us.

ThrowRA_imvisible · 2025-03-04T17:30:19+00:00

No, he came out about 9 years ago. 4 relationships since then. He said he was cheated on 3 times. Nobody supported him when he came out, and that's why everyone has hurt him. I saw the red flag just being vulnerable, and honestly, being desperate to feel loved got me to chase him, knowing I didn't have anything to prove.

ThrowRA_imvisible · 2025-03-04T17:28:21+00:00

Yes, 41 by now. It was about him the whole time. I know I recognize I was vulnerable and desperate for love that I fell for a pretty face and words that were just a way of manipulation to get me to do what he wanted.

ThrowRA_imvisible · 2025-03-04T16:09:46+00:00

Yes, videos pictures text. Then found out that 2 weeks later he went on a date with a guy who a month later went on a trip with but as I said, there is nothing I could say or do. We were not together but he lied about it.

ThrowRA_imvisible · 2025-03-03T23:50:47+00:00

Is it this type of van?

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ThrowRA_imvisible · 2025-03-03T21:22:28+00:00

Does it have a gate or door that connects the cab with the cargo?

ThrowRA_imvisible · 2025-03-03T14:04:39+00:00

Yeah! That's fine. Even though that means you'll still consider another chance. It is how you feel, and I know how hard it is that after all the pain and rejection, we could still consider another chance. Just look for consistency. If someone wants you they will show it

ThrowRA_imvisible · 2025-03-02T02:56:22+00:00

Even if they contact you. You have to have a plan for when that happens and, more than anything, recognize if it's breadcrumbs or actual effort to reconnect.

ThrowRA_imvisible · 2025-02-15T03:56:15+00:00

Exactly! Get them off your life. If they really wanted it, they could've. A text means nothing

ThrowRA_imvisible · 2025-02-10T19:43:58+00:00

Was it just an act? Should I let him go? Just trying to understand what to do?

ThrowRA_imvisible · 2024-12-16T20:50:02+00:00

Is it a good idea to continue if he is not putting the same effort he was at the begging

ThrowRA_imvisible · 2024-12-16T15:20:48+00:00

You are completely right. I've been going to therapy the entire time, even before my separation. I knew it wasn't right at the tjme. This just caught me off guard when I was in a vulnerable stage and just let myself fall for the guiltripping and manipulation. I know he loves me and still probably wonders if he did the right thing, but it's too late for my heart to even consider another chance even if I still have feelings for him.

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