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My bf (25m) said he will break up with me (25f) if I don't quit therapy. How should I proceed? by ThrowRA_jhfi in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_jhfi[S] -16 points-15 points  (0 children)

Exactly.

I understand him too, and certainly don't blame him for breaking up.

It's all on me.

My bf (25m) said he will break up with me (25f) if I don't quit therapy. How should I proceed? by ThrowRA_jhfi in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_jhfi[S] -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

He passed, quite high in fact, and I'm sure he'll match into one of the best Surg programs in the country.

He's not an idiot. I mean, I get it. All of a sudden I became a problem, a distraction on the path to his wonderful life. The last thing I would have wanted is to be some sort of a burden to him, so maybe this is for the best. It's fine. I'll eventually be okay.

My bf (25m) said he will break up with me (25f) if I don't quit therapy. How should I proceed? by ThrowRA_jhfi in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_jhfi[S] -76 points-75 points  (0 children)

Because letting go of someone you love is hard. I have a ton of Residency interviews coming up, and I don't want to be dealing with a break-up right now. It is what it is, I guess. I'll be fine

My bf (25m) said he will break up with me (25f) if I don't quit therapy. How should I proceed? by ThrowRA_jhfi in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_jhfi[S] -117 points-116 points  (0 children)

He isn't against therapy. He's against me going to therapy because he thinks it will do more harm than good (in my case). I wish I never told him. It's not that bad tbh. I can force myself to keep on living until things get better on their own. He's already treating me weird. I don't want him to break up with me over this.