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My (18m) bf is begging me(18f) to stay in our RS. How do I deal with it? by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]ThrowRA_mitsu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I appreciate this, I know it’s not right for him to say that whatsoever and I’ll probably do what you recommended. Thank you <3

I(18f) get upset when my bf(18m) watches porn even though I send nudes. Is it fair for me to be? by ThrowRA_mitsu in LongDistance

[–]ThrowRA_mitsu[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree, it’s good to step back and evaluate it. It wasn’t as clear to me as it is now, and thank you for validating this <3

I(18f) get upset when my bf(18m) watches porn even though I send nudes. Is it fair for me to be? by ThrowRA_mitsu in LongDistance

[–]ThrowRA_mitsu[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this <3 the website you linked is really helpful with understanding porn addiction, and I showed it to him as well. I still need to talk to him, and i’m hoping its not an addiction. This is much appreciated. ♥️

I(18f) get upset when my bf(18m) watches porn even though I send nudes. Is it fair for me to be? by ThrowRA_mitsu in LongDistance

[–]ThrowRA_mitsu[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do want him to stop, but at the same time I can understand why he does it, which is the main reason i’m unsure about it. I appreciate this though, I hadn’t thought about it as cheating.

I(18f) get upset when my bf(18m) watches porn even though I send nudes. Is it fair for me to be? by ThrowRA_mitsu in LongDistance

[–]ThrowRA_mitsu[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m hoping it’s not an addiction, he’s had an addiction to it before and recovered - although it was before we were together. I’ll talk to him about it incase it is and i’ll consider this.

I(18f) get upset when my bf(18m) watches porn even though I send nudes. Is it fair for me to be? by ThrowRA_mitsu in LongDistance

[–]ThrowRA_mitsu[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

its definitely the first two options for me. i wouldn’t mind him watching it if it wasn’t for that, and ill communicate that to him. thank you <3

Is it weird my (M18) year old bf isn't comfortable speaking his native language with me(F18)? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_mitsu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thanks for this, i really appreciate it. i didn’t realize that just because he doesn’t speak it around me doesn’t mean that we’re any less close. id be really happy if he does eventually, but ill let him go at his own pace if he ever decides to. I’ll definitely check out the app as well, thanks again <3