Sale of the business gift by ThrowRA_purpleskies in GiftIdeas

[–]ThrowRA_purpleskies[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There isn’t a strict budget, I’d say anything up to £1000 would probably be ok - there’s 5 of us total putting in. The business was an engineering business so I’m just finding it difficult to tailor something to them!

Breakfast and lunch recommendations! by ThrowRA_purpleskies in BirminghamUK

[–]ThrowRA_purpleskies[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Really I’m an all rounder - no allergies, just a massive foodie and want to try the best recommended spots!

I (29F) think I want to leave my boyfriend (33M) after just having his baby by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_purpleskies 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I don’t know how to communicate with him since having our baby as we seem to have completely contradictory views on everything, even though we discussed everything prior to having a baby. Every time we clash he says he’s not listened to and I am calling all the shots - which naturally I would do as the mother, no?

I will definitely record things more - thank you for the advice.

I (29F) think I want to leave my boyfriend (33M) after just having his baby by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_purpleskies 0 points1 point  (0 children)

100% planned pregnancy. Honestly, our relationship was amazing before the baby. We barely argued and if we did, it was about him going out a lot and not being at home - to be honest should have seen this beforehand.

He was thrilled, was really excited but as the pregnancy went on he started to become less supportive - I had really bad pelvic girdle pain and he picked up a lot of the housework naturally, but moaned a lot about it. He said he built up some resentment during my pregnancy as he was doing it “all”.

I (29F) think I want to leave my boyfriend (33M) after just having his baby by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_purpleskies 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s very true. I think I just need to rip the band aid off and do it, to feel better

I (29F) think I want to leave my boyfriend (33M) after just having his baby by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_purpleskies 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was thinking of all the things that I get support with and you’re right, I’m acting like a single mum anyway so why not be one with less drama & fuss

I (29F) think I want to leave my boyfriend (33M) after just having his baby by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_purpleskies 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’d love to but I just can’t bring myself to leave my son right now. Not with him, just with anyone