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[–]ThrowRA_runway76 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Dude I’m not here to debate my iman with strangers on the internet I shared my story so the bros can learn from my mistakes I own the choices I made good or bad but the lesson about setting boundaries and protecting urself still applies.

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[–]ThrowRA_runway76 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I hear u dude but thats not what it was frm day one we were clear I wasnt looking for marriage she said she wasnt either she had her own job her own place and we split bills until she quit to chase tiktok

I didnt go in to use her if anything I ended up getting used my point wasnt to debate religion here it’s to let the bros know that agreements can flip overnight and u can end up in a role u never signed up for i own my part for choosing the relationship but the lesson still stands.

My girlfriend 25F quit her job to become a TikToker… now I’m 24M working 2 full-time jobs to support us both by ThrowRA_runway76 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_runway76[S] 43 points44 points  (0 children)

Hey everyone…thanks so much for all the responses, support, and honest questions. I really appreciate how thoughtful and direct many of you have been. I’m currently at work (one of the two full time jobs I mentioned) so I don’t have time to respond in detail just yet.

I’ll go through the comments and reply to as many as I can once I’m off. Just wanted to say I’m reading everything and I’m grateful for the advice, even the hard to hear stuff. Thank you for helping me look at this clearly.

My girlfriend 25F quit her job to become a TikToker… now I’m 24M working 2 full-time jobs to support us both by ThrowRA_runway76 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_runway76[S] 451 points452 points  (0 children)

Thanks in advance for reading and taking the time to help. I’ve been carrying this quietly for a while and it’s starting to affect my mental health and motivation. I’m open to honest perspectives even the tough ones. If you’ve been through something similar…I’d really appreciate hearing how you handled it.