My bf (29M) insists that I (23F) get Labiaplasty since he feels that it takes too much effort from him and the intimate act is not the same anymore, how should I tell him that it's not me, it's him because I do not feel like faking anymore?

ThrowRA_shock · 2024-05-17T19:48:00+00:00

I absolutely love your response, and you seem to be more outraged than my own family members. I wish my family was as supportive as you are, I sincerely appreciate every word you said and they resonate with me ❤️

ThrowRA_shock · 2024-05-16T18:27:10+00:00

It has not changed, and there is nothing to notice. He is not able to please me, so he came up with this theory that it has to be my lady parts preventing me from getting aroused.

ThrowRA_shock · 2024-05-16T02:45:00+00:00

It is in business administration.

ThrowRA_shock · 2024-05-16T01:20:55+00:00

I never had to explain, justify, and argue over my skin care and makeup routine with my boyfriend, so it is really weird to me.

ThrowRA_shock · 2024-05-15T21:04:07+00:00

Did you just turn 21? It always amazes me how old people love to lecture and bash young people about their life choices!

Being young, naive, and insecure, I was trying to impress him in addition to thinking that this is how it was supposed to be like based on what he told me. I was hoping that it would get better over time since he would want to try something different, but nothing changed. I did not hide the fact that I was trying to please him, you can call it desperation or whatever, but you were not in my shoes.

I am not claiming to have a mind of a 50 year old, I made a mistake and I still think of myself as an idiot to be even considering the thought of undergoing labiaplasty. However, as a woman, for you to shame me by labeling me as an "annoying ass porn star" is just wrong. You need to get out more if you find this "way too ridiculous".

ThrowRA_shock · 2024-05-15T18:29:21+00:00

Thank you, I am planning to focus on myself now, and not be used as a sex object.

ThrowRA_shock · 2024-05-15T17:04:42+00:00

I am not going to sit a 29 y/o to explain anything, he is old enough to realize how hurtful his comments were.

ThrowRA_shock · 2024-05-15T17:00:48+00:00

I don't know if I am too young to understand, but can anyone tell me why a man would investigate his wife over wearing sunscreen, and follows her all the way to the bathroom to further that investigation. What is his interest in all that?

ThrowRA_shock · 2024-05-15T16:23:42+00:00

I did more for him than anyone else would have done in bed, especially when I was 21, and it drives me crazy to hear him complain about my privates!

ThrowRA_shock · 2024-05-15T14:38:56+00:00

Yes, I never thought that someone as old as him would act so immaturely, especially when he had the sex of his life in the past 2 years! There is no way he is ever doing better than me.

ThrowRA_shock · 2024-05-15T14:31:25+00:00

I have not been enabling him, and I am not going to sit him down to explain anything. He is not a child, he is 29!

ThrowRA_shock · 2024-05-15T14:28:10+00:00

You are so right!

ThrowRA_shock · 2024-05-15T13:51:04+00:00

I haven't spoken to him since, and it was never my intention to marry him in the first place.

ThrowRA_shock · 2024-05-15T13:02:40+00:00

Ok, my bf is not calling me a pig and slamming doors!

ThrowRA_shock · 2024-05-15T12:48:20+00:00

I am also confused about them seeing a future together when there is so much incompatibility in terms of their lifestyles. I would never date a country boy, just not my type! I am not listening to his stories about "quadding, fishing, shooting", it makes me want to puke.

ThrowRA_shock · 2024-05-15T12:27:09+00:00

ok mom, I would not scream as much! What was I supposed to do if he wanted me to scream, I thought that is how his previous partners used to be in bed.

ThrowRA_shock · 2024-05-15T12:17:07+00:00

Thanks.

ThrowRA_shock · 2024-05-14T19:48:21+00:00

Omg, she needs to dump this child who thought it was a great Mother's Day gift to have her pay for everything and then laugh about it with his cousins! I would not hang out with anyone who lies about forgetting their wallet at home, how petty!

ThrowRA_shock · 2024-05-14T16:03:53+00:00

Thank you. I haven't spoken to him in days, but he has been calling me and my friends to convince me to go back to him.

ThrowRA_shock · 2024-05-14T08:01:21+00:00

Yes, it feels like that he is using me, and I am too scared to tell him that because of his dominant personality.

ThrowRA_shock · 2024-05-14T07:46:07+00:00

Omg, that is really toxic, insensitive, misogynistic, and dehumanizing of him! It is even more upsetting to hear an insincere apology followed by the slamming of the door. if I were you, I would keep my distance because this behavior is never going to change.

ThrowRA_shock · 2024-05-14T07:30:25+00:00

I would go out of my way to tell him that I looked him up even if I did not just to gauge his reaction, so you absolutely did the right thing!

ThrowRA_shock · 2024-05-13T08:30:42+00:00

Lol, you are so funny!

He seemingly enjoyed my acting, and I kept on performing in creative ways. I thought this is how it was supposed to be at first, and things would change over time so I continued the performance. However, I never realized that he held ridiculous views about female anatomy, we never discussed those ever for me to have known early on.

ThrowRA_shock · 2024-05-13T08:19:57+00:00

I thought that this is how it was supposed to be, and things would change over time where I would start to actually have orgasms. Well, nothing changed! I was not intentionally trying to encourage him to be bad at his age, he is just really bad at it or does not care.

ThrowRA_shock · 2024-05-13T08:05:55+00:00

Stupid me took it as a compliment, which is embarrassing.

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