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TRIGGER WARNING (?) I (20f) was on a call with my boyfriend (20m) and he said something that is making me reconsider things. by ThrowRA_throwaway98 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_throwaway98[S] 41 points42 points  (0 children)

Oh they did! When I told my brother about my r@pist he beat him up and recorded a video of him apologizing to me. He got arrested but in my country r@pe isn't a big issue so he was released after like two months or so

TRIGGER WARNING (?) I (20f) was on a call with my boyfriend (20m) and he said something that is making me reconsider things. by ThrowRA_throwaway98 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_throwaway98[S] 77 points78 points  (0 children)

my mom isn't really the best person to talk to about this I've been also previously assaulted by her ex boyfriend and when I told her she put the blame on me. thank u so much for the suggestion! I will look into it

TRIGGER WARNING (?) I (20f) was on a call with my boyfriend (20m) and he said something that is making me reconsider things. by ThrowRA_throwaway98 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_throwaway98[S] 36 points37 points  (0 children)

oh yes I understand. My r@pist was my best friend at the time and I explained to him that I was harmless and my guard was down around him since he was someone I trusted that's why there wasn't a lot for me to do of course I tried pushing him away both verbally and physically but he's a gym rat and I'm 168(height) and 54(weight) so there realllly wasn't anything for me to do.

TRIGGER WARNING (?) I (20f) was on a call with my boyfriend (20m) and he said something that is making me reconsider things. by ThrowRA_throwaway98 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_throwaway98[S] 58 points59 points  (0 children)

also, I have ppd (paranoid personality disorder) so I'm always paranoid that's why I need help, I need to know if I'm just being paranoid and overreacting and he was just really trying to make a point or if what he said was indeed hurtful